how come it can't be that easy breezy boy-meets-girl-boy-and-girl-fall-in-love-and-they-stay-together-forever kinda mess?
2007-02-28 04:56:06 · 14 answers · asked by Nacho Chacho 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I hear you!! I am in a relationship like that and it does get better!
You have to learn how to create that relationship, its a struggle but its worth it.
Good Luck!
2007-02-28 05:00:38 · answer #1 · answered by pink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, like other people have said..ITS Called LIFE... But the way I see break-ups is that everything happens for a reason. Everyone you meet in your life makes a difference. Even if they broke your heart, but everyone leaves a mark/scar in your life. And yea, relationships are difficult, but that's what you have to go through to have lived life. Life is never easy,(except when ur still in day care...lol) But relationships will never be a breeze..All I can say is that you have to take what GOD brings your way, and appreciate everyone. Because at the end you will find that special someone!. Everyone has their soul-mate, its just a matter of how long it takes you to find them =)
2007-02-28 13:08:13 · answer #2 · answered by gurl20073 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's only in the movies, my friend. Relationships in real life are messy, painful and inconvenient. But you can't enjoy the good things in life without dealing with the bad and once you work out all the crap, there is love and affection and companionship too.
2007-02-28 13:02:12 · answer #3 · answered by Clarissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are only as hard as you make it. Nobody is putting a gun to your head and forcing you to be in a relationship. If you don't like it then just leave.
2007-02-28 13:05:25 · answer #4 · answered by Chris H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because thats just how it is. theres got to be some kinda of complication so that you will appericate the relationship once you are together and happy.
2007-02-28 13:02:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because we are all different. relationships take work...even if they are family relationships, like sisters, etc...
we either accept someone for who and how they are or we don't...you can not change anyone, they have to change themselves...all you can do is decide if you can deal with people as they are
we are all just different...if you want the relationship to work than it takes work
be cool...
2007-02-28 13:00:49 · answer #6 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because WE make it hard...and also havent' you heard LIFE is hard!...But the special ones are the ones who know this and find ways to make things better!!! Now when you find one of those...KEEP HIM/HER! Best of luck!!!
2007-02-28 13:01:46 · answer #7 · answered by Sol 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because anything worth having is worth working for. ;)
2007-02-28 13:06:05 · answer #8 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its called LIFE
2007-02-28 13:00:23 · answer #9 · answered by D.... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because men don't use there brains.
2007-02-28 13:03:07 · answer #10 · answered by Stac 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋