i like her but not as much as i like this other girl...this other girl that i like is amazing and just like perfect but my best friend likes her, she likes me and only him a little my girlfriend isa jerk to mee and i really want this other girl? should i just be hey f them ima go for it.... what should i do?
2007-02-28 04:55:50 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first you need to make sure that this other girl likes you for sure. because you dont want to dump your girlfriend then find out that the other girl doesnt want you......cuz then your left with no one. But if your girlfriend is a jerk as you say then dump that ***** and go for the girl that really makes you smile.
2007-02-28 04:59:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whatever you do, being honest with all the parties involved is the best thing. Let both your best friend and you soon to be ex- girlfriend know about your feelings. Since the attraction between you and the "new" girlfriend is mutual, there should be no problem as long as nothing is hidden or done "behind" anyones back.
2007-02-28 13:03:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if your girlfriend is a jerk to you, you should break up with her regardless of the other girl....life is too short. I would also consider the fallout from dating this other girl that your friend likes.....isn't there some 'guy' code that you don't do that? Or is it ex-girlfriends.......or sisters? Anyway, I would talk to your friend before you do anything with the girl - friends are more important then chicks.
2007-02-28 13:00:09 · answer #3 · answered by Clarissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if ur a best friend to this dude u won't make a move on his girl. i realize its not his girl yet but it depends on if u want to keep ur friend or not. it's possible to even ask ur friend if he is going to ask her out or not. as for the jerk being a gf i don't know the details but if she really is a jerk id get rid of her either way it goes. theres plenty of fish in the sea
2007-02-28 13:00:31 · answer #4 · answered by chad_27292 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think that you shoudl never leave the one you love for the one you like because the one you like will leave you for the one they love...but if your girlfriend does not appreciate you and is a jerk to you then maybe she needs a wake up call and by breaking up with ehr ebecause of the way she treats you, she will know that you wont put up with ehr ****, but be sure to tell her you are leaving her because of how she treats you, that way you dont loook like the bad guy! But i think you shoudl find out how you friend really feels about this girl because it is hard to ruin a friendship because of a girl because you will always be known as the guy who gave up a friend for a girl adn then you also need to find out if this girl really does liek you and want something with you or if she is just messing around.....find out the facts before you make a decision because nothing like giving somethin up for someone who wont give up something for you....hope this helps
2007-02-28 13:07:30 · answer #5 · answered by o4_babygirl_o4 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh gosh! Go for the girl you really want just make sure you don't cheat. I have been though these kinda things in my case it just never works out. Just if you decide to break up with her please be honest and tell her the truth she will respect you for it. Also if you ever wanted her back she would be more likely to except because she knows that she can trust you. Good Luck
2007-02-28 13:02:15 · answer #6 · answered by Colorado Coon Dog 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly If you like the other girl, if she likes you and if your girlfriend is a jerk you should. But I think it would be better if you first asked your girlfriend why she is a jerk to you.
2007-02-28 13:02:12 · answer #7 · answered by ofvolvoblood 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with your girlfriend. Ask out the other girl. Once the other girl agrees to go out with you, tell your best friend you're going out with her so he needs to leave her alone from now on.
Next!
2007-02-28 12:59:17 · answer #8 · answered by wwhrd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say tell ur gf that the both of you aren't working out and start getting more acquainted with the other girl. But, don't just leave your gf for this other girl for the wrong reasons.
2007-02-28 13:01:46 · answer #9 · answered by N0+ 3@$!Ly &R0]{3n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your current girlfriend is being a jerk to you, then I suggest you confront her about it. If she doesn't see the light, then break it off and move on to the other chic, before your friend does.
2007-02-28 13:01:23 · answer #10 · answered by jeffrey_alvarez2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋