We had a good relationship...I later learned eventhough he didn't share his feelings with me through communications and told me don't worry about it....the day came when he exploded and wanted to end it! told me I did nothing wrong....just wanted to end it. Now after a year (due our sports club having to see him 6x's a week) he still can't hardly look at me or speak to me ...maybe just a weak hey...thats it. i was told after the break up by a friend he didn't have the same feelings for me as in the beginning (who does) but why after all this time (and he never got into another relationship) why can't he talk to me...???? I have tried...opened the door many times he keeps it closed...but why?
2007-02-28 04:53:22 · 3 answers · asked by sporty_kitten 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have moved on he hasn't...I just find it hurtful to know that other ex's at our club talk to each other...and he doesn't want to.
2007-02-28 05:08:37 · update #1
not everyone gets over something at the same speed as you do....he may still be sorting things out at a tortoise pace, or he may have not done anything and is just avoiding it all together.
seeing you may trigger memories that he doesnt wish to deal with.
let him be...if he wants to talk with you, he will..otherwise, move on...you know the consequences of break up are either friendship after a time or no friendship at all.
2007-02-28 05:03:52 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he doesn't want to fall into the old relationship again or is worried that that is what you are looking for.
2007-02-28 12:58:24 · answer #2 · answered by Alfonso 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shouldn't matter, let it go and move on.
2007-02-28 13:05:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋