wat should i do
2007-02-28 04:43:13 · 11 answers · asked by dragonrulerz21 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends on how deep this love is for her and how she feels about you.
If she loves you, but think it's 'best' if she marry this other guy, then I say make your move and keep her from making a huge mistake in her life.
If she loves you, but is not 'in love with you', then I suggest you leave it alone.
But if you can't leave it no matter what, then I say you should tell her how you feel - face to face. This way you can see how she reacts and you'll be able to honestly see how she feels about you as well.
You don't want to think about what could've or should've been for the rest of your life.
Hope this helped, and hope all works out for you! ♥
2007-02-28 04:49:37 · answer #1 · answered by ♥LadyC♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How bad do you want her? Are you willing to possibly ruin a friendship? A marriage? If you told her that you loved her, do you think that she would be willing to give all of that up? Do you think that she would just drop everything, the time, energy and resources that go into planning a wedding, for a chance with you?
If you can weight the pro's and con's and still feel like declaring your love for her is worth all of this, then do what you have to do.
But if you were a smart man, you should except the fact that she is getting married and move on. She is not the only girl in the world.
Good luck
2007-02-28 12:50:13 · answer #2 · answered by Chris H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through the exact same situation not too long ago. If they really love each other, then you should probably just be friends with her. I know, that sucks but it's better to have that girl in your life as a friend than not at all. In the end, I was glad that I made that decision.
2007-02-28 12:52:24 · answer #3 · answered by El Diablo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, only you can answer the question. Love is very difficult.
It is possible that she's marrying the wrong guy, but I'm a little concerned about your note that you "really like" her.
Unless you know that you love her and that there's possibility of reciprocation, then you should move on and seek someone else.
2007-02-28 12:51:40 · answer #4 · answered by Joe Bostonian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait it out, see if she marries the other guy but don't set yourself up for a heartbreak by jumping the gun. Until then move on there's more fishes in the sea.
2007-02-28 12:50:36 · answer #5 · answered by mizz serious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you just like her...
and she loves this guy
and this guy loves her
you shouldnt break up their engagement just because of a crush.
However, if you love her and could honestly see yourself spending the rest of your life with her... try hanging out with her, being friends, you have a year, maybe she will fall for you.
2007-02-28 12:47:46 · answer #6 · answered by Sammy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can reveal your true feelings for her and hope that she will leave her fiance and their potential life together for you OR you can leave it alone and go on with your life since she is taken and not available. You must make the choice. But one question: If you don't do it, will you regret it the rest of your life?
2007-02-28 12:48:57 · answer #7 · answered by ht_butterfly27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your screwed dude.....too bad and sad. It sucks, but i had something like this happen to me several times....my advice is just fin another girl and not get your hopes up. There are definitly more out there
2007-02-28 12:59:03 · answer #8 · answered by cowboys_and_aces 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really like her? Then let her live the life she's chosen.
2007-02-28 13:02:27 · answer #9 · answered by BigMac2xk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot can happen in a year..she may not be by then..
2007-02-28 12:47:07 · answer #10 · answered by Cod 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋