for ex. on the show nanny they showed this woman who has 3 kids another one on the way and she bitches b/c she is soo tired of one of them b/c he has ADHD, well the she is a homemaker, it is her job to deal with the kids, the husband is out working all so he is tired by the time he comes home-why is she so needy? why did she open her legs so much ? she knew the consequences.
2007-02-28 03:59:52 · 9 answers · asked by amanda 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Have kids.
Have no family around to help.
We are a sickly society, so damned independent, living so far from our biological social network.
You try it.
2007-02-28 04:03:02 · answer #1 · answered by starryeyed 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
First, how sad for the child whose mom is tired of him because he has adhd. He did not ask to be born with adhd.
Second, the mom is WORKING just like her husband. Taking care of a home and children all day is work. It was not unreasonable of her to demand that her husband help when he gets home. Those are his children too.
2007-02-28 05:11:03 · answer #2 · answered by pathfindercia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parenting is a two person job. He should be there for her. Sometimes moms need breaks. That is not being needy, it is called being real. (And it takes two to have children, he knew the consequences as well).
2007-02-28 04:39:43 · answer #3 · answered by Laura H 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not even about her opening her legs. Some people just aren't fit to be parents, whether they can afford them or not. She apparently needs a rude awakening about life and she was probably a needy person from the beginning. Hope she outlives him and is able to keep him around forever, because from the sound of things, if life actually hits her, she's doomed!!!!
2007-02-28 04:04:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I appreciate this question and scenario.
I agree 100%. I believe that children are such a huge responsibility as well as @ great source of pleasure, as a result a limited number like 1 or 2 suffices. (Provided you can provide for them: this is financial as well as emotional)
2007-02-28 04:51:40 · answer #5 · answered by Sweetgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 00:32:37 · answer #6 · answered by intriago 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women were raised to be spoiled rotten. He probably knew what she was like when he married her, so that's his bad. Also, I have a daughter who is six, I'm 21, and I have never ever bitched about having to take care of her, even when i could have been having fun with my friends. some people take rsponsibility for thier actions, and grow up. Others just get older, and everyone has to follow them with a pooper scooper cleaning up thier messes and problems.
2007-02-28 04:05:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
You need a license to drive a car.
You need a license to practice law and medicine.
You even need a friggin' license to get married!
WHY don't they give you a license to breed? IF they tested for it, there would be far less idiots raising future criminals in the world!
2007-03-01 12:41:47 · answer #8 · answered by Tough Love 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being needy is a way of controlling others. If you cannot handle a situation then you force others to do it for you.
2007-02-28 04:08:35 · answer #9 · answered by diogenese_97 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋