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I just postd a question about where to have a wedding, and it seem great for us to go off and have awedding...But we have 2 little kids...currently 4 and 2....I would want them to be part of the wedding...what about the honeymoon....I hate being away from the kids...We went for a getway night one 3 hrs away, and as in tears in the morning cuz i missed them...

2007-02-28 03:40:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting Parenting

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They should be part of the wedding, it is not just a couple, it is a family. Same goes for the honeymoon, if you can't stand the thought of leaving them, then make it a family-bonding vacation instead of a honeymoon. Bring a couple of extra adults, then everyone gets to have a good time and everyone gets to have a vacation. If you take you parents for example, then you and your ne spouse can have some time alone, your parents would get some time alone, and the kids would always have someone to watch them and do things with them. If your new spouse is totally against it (which is okay, marriage is a big event). Have a night away every week for awhile. Then you are leaving them with a trusted fiend or relative for just one night but stay in town at a hotel. It is hard at fist, I love being a mom and I hate leaving my kids, but it is important to have some bonding time and spend alone time with your spouse.

2007-02-28 04:13:58 · answer #1 · answered by Huggles-the-wise 5 · 2 0

You are now not just a Mommy you're a wife....one day the children will be gone and you want to have a good relationship with your husband & it starts on your wedding day.

The children should be there for the wedding....have a family member take care of them....but the honeymoon should just be for the 2 of you. Call them twice a day if you need to but they will be fine. It's good to be away from them every so often because it teaches them that they can do OK if you leave them for a bit.

Have a wonderful wedding & be happy.

2007-02-28 03:51:19 · answer #2 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 2 0

Hi Aries always my best friend is an Aries.I have three kids and just recently decided to get married.I am from the midwest and we traveled by car to clearwater Florida and had a beach ceremony and the company that we chose had made a special part just for the kids and you can give them a little gift at the opportune time it was great and beautiful and most of all it was resonable $550.00 and that included the photographer if interested contact weddingsonawhim.com or just search beach weddings,everyone can enjoy this.Good luck,Renee

2007-02-28 03:49:51 · answer #3 · answered by rlsonschein@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0 0

Well, you can either have the tears because you're missing them, or you can have the tears because of all the hassles of bringing young children on vacation with you (not to mention interrupting your intimate time with hubby)...

It's not healthy to be with your kids 24/7 until their 18 anyways - so why not get yourself and them used to you not always being there. Let grandparents or other trusted family take them for sleepovers to start until your comfortable with being away from them - that way you can go for a honeymoon and really enjoy it for what it's supposed to be - time with your new husband alone.

2007-02-28 04:15:21 · answer #4 · answered by chicchick 5 · 1 1

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2016-12-14 07:32:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Of course, you love them. But this is your honeymoon and children would be a distraction from your husband... especially children so young. It's okay to leave children for short periods of time. That way they will not have abandonment issues. They need to be in the comapny of other trustworthy adults. If not, they will be paranoid when they start school. Please try not to be one of those moms who are too clingy. Not good for you or them

2007-02-28 03:51:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3 0

you and your hubby to be need alone time together. i believe thats very important in a relationship.

my parents went away on their anniversary ever since i can remember, just for a night or 2. but a honeymoon is a once in a lifetime thing (we hope) so you need to focus on one another, not the kids.

2007-02-28 03:52:28 · answer #7 · answered by TN girl 4 · 1 1

You probably have someone you trust that you can leave your kids with, (their grandparents, an aunt or uncle). Your honeymoon is your time to enjoy being married with your husband, and it is not a place to have kids. It's probably hard for you to realize it, but you cant be with your kids every minute of their lives.

2007-02-28 03:46:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4 1

How about you take both your parents your kids and go to an all inclusive resort that has marriage packages and do both get married and have a honey moon. You will have your parents to help with the kids!

2007-02-28 03:51:48 · answer #9 · answered by c0mplicated_s0ul 5 · 1 1

It is your wedding and your honeymoon. It is supposed to be something that you will enjoy! Do what you want to do.

2007-02-28 03:48:41 · answer #10 · answered by Laura H 5 · 1 0

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