he is juvenhall and the other day he told me that he misses me and he said he could put his rms around the world thar how much he misses me and then he rote me yesterday he told me he loves me and he said wen he gets out he what to tell me to my face that he loves me what does that mean help!!
2007-02-28 03:32:26 · 29 answers · asked by Brittany C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's lying to you. He just wants to get into your pants. To partake of your trouser treasures.
2007-02-28 03:35:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Your boyfriend may love you, he may think that love is something different than you. This is only my thinking, but I think that love, the type of love that you heart drops, your breathing changes, and you are just in awe of the other person, lasts a couple of months. After that there are glimpses of this time but the feelings just won't be there, I would rather enjoy the few months of passoinate love, then a long time of passionless love. Fighting or arguing have no passion, it is just mistaken as passion, it's more like resentment and guilt, having the other person feel like they are owed something or that you are owed something, that is more important than the passion, but between two people that are not family (blood) all there is is passion.
He may love you right now, but don't count on it being as meaningful and fulfilling as right now because of the situation. I have a cousin, and her boyfriends family did not like that she was with him because they thought that she was after there money, which her family had more of. But any way, they ran away to Mexico to defy their parents, this brought them together gave them a struggle that they both could prevail in. After this the parents agreed not interfere with them, and they had a cute little girl. Now her boyfriend is an asshole to her and she just sticks around for those few moments that show little bits of "passion". Her boyfriend doesn't let her put the baby in a baby seat in the car, just stupid stuff.
More than likely the closest that most people, may not be you come to love, is when they are older than 25 because they just can see life for what it is not what it seems to be. I am 21 and still feel the same as I did when I was 16, the only difference is that am not as naive.
Good Luck to you be strong, family always over anyone else. If you family has unconditional love for you.
2007-02-28 11:48:22 · answer #2 · answered by Jose S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with everybody that says you need to get rid of this guy. Not only is there a great chance that he's lying to you, but this guy is showing he has criminal behavior.
It is often hard to make these decisions in life. You have to always keep your mind on the future. It doesn't seem like this guy has much of one, and he is telling you all this about how much he loves you just so he can use you.
Be smart.
2007-02-28 11:39:44 · answer #3 · answered by duffman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a possibility that maybe he really does love you, and him going to the program where he is at made him realize just how much he does love you. Time apart makes the heart grow fonder. My suggestion for when he gets out, take things slow. Don't rush into anything too complicated with him. Just keep your head up and stay strong. Good luck!
2007-02-28 11:38:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
doll...
when boys & men are locked up with a bunch of other men, with no females around, most of them (not all-there are a few exceptions) love every female willing to communicate with them. the real test is when he gets out, and how many "friends" he has while he's locked up.
does he ask you often to put money on his books? if not thats a good sign. if you care about him, that's how you feel, but dont wrap your world around him...only when he gets out will the truth come out...
wish you the best.
2007-02-28 11:39:27 · answer #5 · answered by D.... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A boy or man will probably say just about anything when he is locked up...I wouldn't take it too seriously, wait until he gets out and see where it goes from there! I also think you need to spend more time concentrating on school...you spelling really needs work.
2007-02-28 11:40:16 · answer #6 · answered by kim a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It definitely means you should stay in school and go on with your life. You can worry about what happens to / with him when he gets out. He is just lonely which is normal and looking for someone on the outside that still cares. This is your opportunity to stay in school, get your own life in order without him as a distraction. Education is the most important thing you can do for yourself to make your life easier when you get older. Good Luck!!
2007-02-28 11:37:13 · answer #7 · answered by jtaylor1993 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It could mean either that he is really lonely n he just needs so human compassion wich still u shud giv it to him cause he wont say if he didnt lik you. or he said it cause he really is in love with you. now all you need to do is find out if you love it or not cause no matter if hes lonely or really loves you he still said it n it takes alot for a guy to do that so giv him some credit.
good luck i hope he trully does lov u n both of u liv it up
2007-02-28 11:38:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sweetie hes just telling you that, get you a better guy that can stay out of trouble. he just wants you to put out, hes not worth the heartache that's coming
2007-02-28 11:40:45 · answer #9 · answered by instantgratification1983 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how to put this. But I think some guy in Juvenile Hall (!!!!) thinks he really loves you. What about that? The ball seems to be in your court. @8-)
2007-02-28 11:37:50 · answer #10 · answered by Dovey 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your guy is in juvenile hall, you do not need to be with him. His life is out of control. He is just saying that cause he thinks he will never get out of jail.
Maybe he does love you, but he seems to love getting in trouble more-so I say give him a break.
You're young. You do not need to be with a guy who is already gaining a record.
2007-02-28 11:36:28 · answer #11 · answered by marquella_la_nice 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋