my friend Rick doesnt want serious relationship at all.
if girl get serious , he runs away. sometimes girls got hurt.
he once hurt even my sister, but he didnt sleep with my sister so I forgave him.
his talent is making girl easily be stuck with him.
he often says " I am young why settle with one? every flower smells differntly , I just want to smell them as many as possible cuz they are there."
but the problem is he seems to be addicted to collecting flowers and his smelling time gets shorter and shorter, and dumped flowers quite often sob
I like him except this he is good. what can you say to him?. Sometimes I WONDER he really enjoys his hobby.
2007-02-28 03:25:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He obviously does enjoy his hobby and already has been upfront with you about that and honest about him not having any intentions to change this going forward, so it is not his fault if the "dumped flowers" get hurt, it is there own fault (or yours) if you choose not to listen and believe that you will be "the one" that will change him...you won't.
2007-02-28 03:42:46 · answer #1 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meep. That's scary.
Maybe he's addicted to the situations like you described, "smell as many as possible" because he has nothing to do, or nothing he enjoys better.
The best suggestion I can think up for you in this situation is that you can try getting closer to him as a friend, then inspire him to do something else like sports or making girls feel special, instead of playing them like toys. n_n
I'm amazed that you care so much. :D Thanks. Makes my day cus I'm a girl :P
P.S Note that I'm not the best advicer, or can even refer myself to as an advicer, I can only give suggestions. n_n
2007-02-28 11:39:10 · answer #2 · answered by Nightwolf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is simple, it is not your life, it is not your business. We are supposed to love our friends the way they are. I know, I have a friend that does stuff that is morally wrong and as much as it bothers me, it is not my business what other people do. My business is the only thing I need be concerned with. Just remember that charma may take over for him in the future.
2007-02-28 11:36:39 · answer #3 · answered by smileyOne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its nice to see ..i appreciate this ..but not to hurt someones feelings ..what he is doin may be somehow other girls doin that too , to him. Its a dangerous hobby ,,thats true..it can ruin his life before he could have time to think of what was wrong..On the other hand i think he is a nice guy coz he got a caring frnd like you. Both of you are nice person so it will be allright..GOOD LUCK..
2007-02-28 11:34:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just enjoying his life..if and when he finds the right girl for him for sure he will settle down.
2007-02-28 11:31:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will find the right flower. It may be a rare orchid and not a sweet rose, but he will find it.
2007-02-28 11:30:55 · answer #6 · answered by dancing11freak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him, let it out and see what happens
2007-02-28 11:29:32 · answer #7 · answered by foreveraaliayh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋