I'm still in love with my ex!?

Question

my boyfriend and i where together for 2 years and have been seperated for 3 months he just told me today he has another girlfriend it hurt and i got sad i've been dreaming about us getting back together. we talk like everday. he is also like my best friend. i have know idea what to do. i miss him. and i think he still loves me he tells me he wants to get together in the futrue but i dunno it hurts now and i love him now. he was my first love.

ok i need to add this i know where you guys are coming from but i didn't cheat on him we broke up more over not being able to see each other and me being underaged. no one cheated no one ran away, we are still friends and we where before we dated to. I don't really mind his girl because he atleast told me he didnt let me find out from some other source.

ok i need to add this i know where you guys are coming from but i didn't cheat on him we broke up more over not being able to see each other and me being underaged. no one cheated no one ran away, we are still friends and we where before we dated to. I don't really mind his girl because he atleast told me he didnt let me find out from some other source.

Answer 1

well even if he is saying that he does want to get back w/ u - looks like thats not true cuz hes w/ another girl now! sorry that u have to go thru this ordeal but some guys are stupid and don't deserve your time... and i hate to say this but the better of friends u guys are, the more it will hurt u cuz u will hear him talking bout his g/f and it will hurt u! sooo i suggest that u dim down the friendship also for ur well being...

Answer 2

Yep it hurts when you lose your past love, that is why they always say you don't miss them until they are gone, so why you had him you should have held on to him. Sometimes in a relationship things don't work out for the best, right now he may just want some space and explore somewhere else, he knows what you and him have been through throughout you'll 2 years. I can't tell you what to do but here is the advice, Tell him how you really feels and that if you have caused the problem you will work on it and let him know you are sorry and you are willing to change and you both gotta work this out if it means seek counseling. You know what caused this break-up so you both got to work together and fix it if you want to be together for a long time. Sometimes being apart make you think about things that happened in your relationship and gives you the chance to fix it. I hope everything comes out for the best between you and your man so Good Luck my dear.

Answer 3

wow, this makes me sad. I have a bf for 2 years too and I would be so sad if he told me he had another girl after breaking up. Maybe you should tell him youre thinking of going away somewhere and not call him for a bit. Then he will realize how much he misses you and he will have to come back. if you always call him and stuff he wont miss you. make him need you. OR you can just tell him how you feel. tell him you are still in love with him and you can let it go, maybe he SECRETLY feels the same way and maybe hes using the other girl to make you jealous or something so you can tell him how you feel. IT ALSO DEPENDS ON WHY YOU BROKE UP!!! if you cheated or something like that them option # 2 wont work- most likely. Just break a leg and if he comes see u at the hospital, he cares! make a move... no im kidding :)

Answer 4

You must accept that he has made a choice to be with someone else. You may be able to keep the friendship, but it's usually better if you wait awhile before attempting to do so. It's too confusing otherwise, and you'll also have the added issue of offending his new girlfriend. You must do what is in your own best interest, and waiting in the wings in the event that things don't work out with his new girlfriends to his satisfaction will not serve your own interests. It's going to be difficult, but make a clean break and figure out what you want. Learn the lessons and move. Good Luck

Answer 5

If he was your first love, it dose not mean he will be your only love. Put your self out there, allow your self to be available, date, take some time to experience, see what the world and others have to offer. If after you have dated a few others, and still feel strongly for him, then see about getting back together, or tell him how you feel........but first "dip your toes in the water, see how it feels, don't sit on the dock and say you'll never swim.......you might find you like it, and experience more than you have before.

Answer 6

I think you should take some time apart, it know it seems really hard right know, you can learn alot by talking a break. If you truly love each other, you will end up together again, because you will not be able to live with out each other. Or you will soon realize that you might what to see other people.

Answer 7

I think you should move on, face the reality and not just guess your ex still really loves you. If he do, he should be back with you now. For as far as i can judge, he doesnt know how to make a decision, he still miss you but he doesnt want to let go of his current relationship. Thats kind of selfish i think. Save guard yourself first, move on just in case what he had told u might not turn true in future.. take care

Answer 8

This world is tooo big for you to fixate yourself in one person. He is going out with someone else right now and you could end up in fights if he tells his new girl!! Look,my advice may not be the greatest but you can just go and travel, have fun, if when you come back he is interested get together if he is not find someone else......and don't think tooo much about him......is not healthy for you to think and base your life around him when he is obviously having fun with others!!

good luck girl........I hope you can set him aside so he learns the lesson you are feeling right now!!

Answer 9

Well i do not kno what to tell u cuz it is gonna hurt that he is with other girls and i think you need to take it step-by-step. U will move on eventually but u need time to heal and ur first love will always be with even if u guyz do not get back together. So for now slow down and try to move on cuz he might realize what he is missing!!! Good Luck!!

Answer 10

I know the felling of being in love and not being able do do anyhthing about it...I was in love with someone much older then me and I had to wait till I was over 18 to date him and he dated in the meantime...and it hurt like crazy to hear those words...my advice would be to focus on you and only you let him go out of you mind If you two are supposed to be togther then nothing will stand in the way of it...Just give it time...