I know it sounds stupid but i feel guilty about..what should i do?

Question

I know it sounds stupid but i feel guilty about actually being happy..
i know , i know! but the people around me feel like a mess, probably for their lifes, while i am happy for mine.
i also feel guiltes that i don't study at all and everybody arounds me read a lot of hours and i am still the best sudent out there..
i really don't want or need to show myself, i just feel guilty and this is not fair because noone if he/she were me would feel guilty, they would just feel happy ad that's all! what should i do to get over this?

Answer 1

Hi, the best thing you can do is to be content with what u have or feel as soon you know you are not doing harm to enybody. the same happens to me when everyone around me try to study to get better grades but even when i don't study at all, i keep being the same smart girl. See, but i don't feel guilty about all that. you have to learn that the most important person is you. so you only have to worry about doing well at school and maintaining the good relationships with ur family and friends. But NEVER worry about what others think or say about u. And never give up HAPPINESS!!

Answer 2

I know what you mean. I never studied, and my best friend did hours of homework every night. SHe would always ask to see me grades and I would feel guilty if I did better than her. ALSO, I am content with life, I m rarely depressed or bored. Some people are just more high maintainance I guess.... DO NOT feel guilty. Relish your joy and happiness and use it to help others feel complete!

Answer 3

Be grateful for your clear mind and your intelligence. Enjoy your life, it's too short to be burdened with unnecessary guilt. If your friends have trouble with their studies, volunteer to help them. That will make you both feel better. And for goodness sake stay away from religion. All they will tell you is your brains are a gift from their gods and try to make you feel bad for using them; then they'll tell you you're "just a woman" and you're supposed to be submissive. Do the world a favor and go to medical school or something spectacular like that. We need more brainy people like you. Good luck to you.

Answer 4

With your happieness. Don't feel guilty,
When inside a room f darkness, one light can help.

You happieness, could help those around you to be happy with themselves as well.
And with the good grades, if you don't study, then tutor.
Try and SHARE your happieness, then the guilt will subside.

Answer 5

Be glad for what you have. Take your extra time to make the world a better place then you wont feel guilty.

I too have a blessed life. I feel thankful, not guilty.

Answer 6

Dreamer...I will off set you by feeling guilty about being in a horrible black depression which I am told I should just move on from. Send me a little happiness...I prefer it in natural form and not in a pill.
ME

Answer 7

Realize that we each make the decisions that affect our lives. It seems that the people around you aren't making great decisions and are suffering the consequences. Feel good about the success you are having in life. It's their responsibility to get their act together and start to feel good about theirs. If there's any way you can help them, all the better. But their lack of success shouldn't make you feel bad about yours.

Answer 8

Don't be guilty. You have only one life to live. Live it.

Don't let others drag you down. Instead, bring others up with your happiness.

Don't you know, if you live in happiness, you will inspire the same in others?

Answer 9

All I can say is that there's no need to feel guilty. You could use your good fortune to help others by volunteering.

Answer 10

Why should you feel guilty for being smarter then the rest of your classmates? Hey it's not your fault that you are smarter then them. It just is what it is.