because she told me to forget her without any reason and she said she will not talk to even explain to me what the problem is.
2007-02-28 02:37:06 · 16 answers · asked by glodav2006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be persistant in telling her you love her and that you need to know what is wrong. Call in the family and best friends if you have to.
2007-02-28 02:40:55 · answer #1 · answered by JELLE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly u need to know what went wrong.
Rectify the problem from root, slowly covering to the top.
Eg, u find out wat's wrong, and probably it's the inlaws problem.
Work to ease out inlaw issues, den slowly to getting married.
But it also depends on individuals. It ties down to how much do u love her? If u do not really love her deeply, u may consider to drop the relationship if i were u, as I dun want runaway brides in real life.. If she can suddenly come out with things like that, it's unavoidable that she can tell u ridiculous things at ridiculous times.
2007-02-28 10:41:29 · answer #2 · answered by Juv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a person who has has most of your heart, she should at least explain to you what the situation is, she owes you that much.
Have her meet you at a place of your choosing, (example) a coffee house , and if she won't do it. Email or write her a letter telling her that you would appreciate any input from her and also tell her that without knowing why she's acting this way really hurts your heart.
Hope this helps
and if not disregard it.
2007-02-28 10:43:57 · answer #3 · answered by dymps 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about her.....even though you cant really. But you can go out and have fun with your friends and Try to 4get. Finding someone else to spend your time with helps!...You have SOME pride dont you?! Dont let her walk on you liike that man! If she loves you then she would be able to talk with you about anything! Catch my drift?.....You dont need her...trust me, there is someone better for you, it just may take some time to find her. But you can learn from this...and now you know what to look for and what ou want in a woman. Good luck to you
2007-02-28 10:41:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love her,and you know that she really loves you then you have to get to the bottom of it. If she sees that you are determined understand and work things out she will definitely tell you in the end.
After trying very, very hard to get it out of her, then ask her if it would be easier for her to write you a letter explaining. She might be embarrassed to tell you to your face.
If that doesn't work then go to her parents, or her best friend. But for sure there is a way for you to find out.
Good luck.
2007-02-28 10:46:36 · answer #5 · answered by michelebaruch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The very least she could do is explain why. Especially if this was supposed to be someone you spend you life with. Marriage is serious business and if she cant talk to you know, what happens when you get married or if you get married. I would demand to know why
2007-02-28 10:43:12 · answer #6 · answered by mlock123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she pregnant? Sounds like something irrational a pregnant woman does when trying to deal with the news. lol
2007-02-28 10:40:54 · answer #7 · answered by tammer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't seem like you have much of a choice. You either fight to show her how you feel and that your just not going to walk away with no explanation, or you're going to walk away. No guts no glory.
2007-02-28 10:40:35 · answer #8 · answered by Ginger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you love her and then respect her wishes. give her the space and time she needs to deal with whatever issues she is facing. if she loves you she will contact you.
2007-02-28 10:41:07 · answer #9 · answered by pnut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something happened to her, just give it some time and let it settle.
2007-02-28 10:40:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋