I have been best friends with this guy for 8 years now. We have been through so much together. He was in an abusive relationship for 4 years and has horrible luck with girl. They all hurt him and use him. I have been there through it all and will always. I am currently in college and he only has his GED. we live an hour from eachother. When we're together he makes plans for the future and its always "we" not just "me/I'm". I know he cares about me but i dont know if its just as a friend or more. His the only guy i've slept with and he knows that. He starts to say how he feels then we get enterupted. He also gets jealous when he knows a guy is looking or even when his friends try messing around with me. guys what does that mean/ what could it mean?
2007-02-28 02:22:25 · 14 answers · asked by Angel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know he dont have another girl. I know that his not messing around with anyone. I'm really close to his family. They even call me daughter and sister. I know his exs have hurt him so much and its not just his side of the story i got. I witnessed it and knew the exs. His made comments to his family that he thinks his not good enough for me because i'm getting my bach in may and he only has his ged and that some guy here might take me away. but he dont tell me that.
2007-02-28 02:39:25 · update #1
It means he doesn't want you to find somebody to replace him before he finds somebody to replace you as his friend with benefits. He's basically marking his territory (you) to keep other guys away.
I hate to tell you this, but most guys (MOST, not all!) are much bigger dogs than you'd ever guess. I work with loads of them - I'm an engineer in the construction field - and I hear how they speak to each other in unguarded moments.
Don't fall for it.
2007-02-28 02:30:35 · answer #1 · answered by kcbranaghsgirl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know he likes you, I mean you've slept with him. Doesn't he know that you like him? Tell him because he obviously likes you and you like him. Get settled. Stay together and have a relationship, I think you guys would make a good couple, especially if you know what he has gone through and he also knows what you've gone through. Tell him what you feel before another girl hurts him. Good Luck. *_*
2007-02-28 02:28:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could either be being cautious with you, or just getting jealous even though he still wants to be friends. Maybe you should tell him how you feel, and see where you guys stand. If he says he just wants to be friends when you confront him, then that is your confirmation that you should stop hoping for something more, no matter how he behaves.
2007-02-28 02:28:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't u think your relationship is a little extraordinary?i mean, come on, u sleep together, u r best friiends and it is o.k. when he has a gf but it just makes him sick when u have a bf. he could be jelaous bcuz you slept 2gether,boys usually want to own the girls they have been with.but don't talk to him about what's going on between you two.it would rather stay unknown, otherwise u may b disappointed
2007-02-28 02:34:49 · answer #4 · answered by kwlcmmm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that he likes you a lot, but doesn't want to make a commitment and likes to keep his options open in case he meets someone else that he'll like more than you.
2007-02-28 02:27:19 · answer #5 · answered by European in IN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heavily dude looks like he's doubtful what he needs he like your bestfriend yet opt for the completed open dating ingredient the place he can do what he opt for without undertaking. i think of she could desire to call him and ask what he what to do if he do or dont opt for to be along with her. So she would be in a position to flow on along with her existence.
2016-10-02 02:48:59 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that maybe he is keeping you at a distance but acting like your his girl because hes confused, he wants to be with you and for you to be his girl but because of his past abusive relationships hes gonna keep you at arms length, but it seems his feelings are overiding this which is why hes treating you like his girl. you should stick with it and see where it goes because maybe once he figures out his feelings then he'll be able to ask you to be his girl. hope that helps x
2007-02-28 02:27:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends with benefits? Maybe he's afriad of a committment with the distance.
2007-02-28 02:26:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's unwilling to commit in answer to your first question.
Get him to finish what he wants to say about how he feels before you both got interrupted. You'll know for sure then.
2007-02-28 02:27:05 · answer #9 · answered by Bugsy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he realizes it, but i think he does have "feelings" for you.
you need to confront him and ask him if he wants to be friends he cant cross the line and when he does you have to correct him. tell him you like to go to the next level but cant until he is commited
2007-02-28 02:27:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋