I recently just started dating my best friend's brother, Steve. I have never felt this way about anyone before. He is always on my mind. But I am scaring myself with the way I feel. I have liked him for a long time but once we got to talking, I realized all of the things that we have in common. My heart feels like it is going to burst out of my chest whenever I see him. He is the only guy who ever made me laugh hysterically. And laughing is very important to me. I know that most of you are not going to read this because it is long. I just want to know if what I'm feeling will last or if it is just a "crush." I would hate for it to be just that and not something real.
2007-02-28 02:10:51 · 17 answers · asked by amberlynne_2007 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your feelings are telling you that you enjoy being with this guy. Don't shy away from that. Go with your feelings and take a risk on love. There's only one way to find out if it's the real thing. Hope everything works out for you.
2007-02-28 02:16:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U r confused about what is "real." Just because it doesn't last forever does not mean that it isn't real. Love doesn't last forever. It is something that comes and goes and comes and goes as the relationship goes on. I'm sure that your feeling is really strong love but eventually if u stay together long enough it will go away as u get used to each other (but like i said it will come back down the road. probably not as strong though.) What really matters is how committed u r to the relationship because that committment will keep u together during the times that the love has fades.
2007-02-28 10:18:19 · answer #2 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if its a crush u can change it to love.U r attracted to Steve is true but my dear love comes from attraction,first u like then u love.Try to know what Steve feels 4 u?? If he have d same feelings then best of luck.
2007-02-28 10:17:11 · answer #3 · answered by sherry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can't tell if it's a crush or no. you will find that out in a few months. if it's not a crush, then you might fall in love with him (because love needs time). usually you feel that you're in love for about 2 years. after that the respect, the deep friendship keeps you together. i hope everything will be fine with you two
2007-02-28 10:38:33 · answer #4 · answered by baba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i know u may not think of this as a big thing but whenever the sign for his messenger, came as just signed, in my heart would jump so hard so fast it almost hurt, his smell made me high, when he was around his ex, my heart would scream and yearn to yell at her, we could talk about everything we could have been the perfect couple but he just dosent see me that way and it's killing me, he has my heart
2007-02-28 10:32:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The shine will always fade some but you might have fallen in love time will tell lets hope so good luck
2007-02-28 10:15:00 · answer #6 · answered by delmonticoman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think being in love, infatuated, and obsessed are all different. Find out which one you are. At first you were infatuated with him... now since you're with him and he chose you, you're probably on cloud 9 and obsessed with him.. that'll wear off.. and when it does... you'll feel comfortable enough around him to simply say "I love you"... but you'll *always* be crazy for him ;)
2007-02-28 10:16:41 · answer #7 · answered by Gina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As corny as this answer sounds...only time will tell. Just don't get weird about the whole thing. Be yourself and see what happens, don't try to rush it or try to define things right away.
2007-02-28 10:16:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well... all relationships are like that at the beginning with time everything changes but enjoy it, it might become something special
2007-02-28 10:17:32 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm obssessed with Orlando Bloom! I'm a little crazy at times!
2007-02-28 10:14:30 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋