well how do you speak up for yourself without gettin shy?

Question

So how do you say things but you dont want to say it, but you just have to tell your freind to plz stop doing something and stuff without being mean.

Answer 1

You need to just do it.. the shyness is something that youre dealing with, not the person whos bothering you. Just frame whatever your complaint is in a peaceful manner.. perhaps a compliment sandwich...

example

You look very nice today but what really annoys me about you is the fact that you chew with your mouth open but what a lovely set of teeth you have

Answer 2

If she's really ur friend, then you should be able to talk to her without feeling like an idiot. She shouldn't give you an icy stare when you talk to her about problems that you are haveing, she should be a shoulder to cry on if you need one.

Answer 3

depends on the situation but i reckon you've just got to go ahead and say it