Well there is tis girl is new her and she has been flirting with my bf behind my back. What should i do? She has been trying to be my friend. But she asked my bf if we were still going out and he said yes and she said WHY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!-all mad like! Should i confront her and cuss her out an see how it goes or act like we are friends and see if she is two faced? HELP ME!!!!!!! please.
2007-02-28 01:32:20 · 19 answers · asked by ***i_l0ve_j0eY*** 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you can't trust your man then you aren't in a real relationship.
2007-02-28 01:35:28 · answer #1 · answered by lisalau 5 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Girl! All that girl is doing, is testing you. If you an dyour boyfriend have an open, and honest relationship, then don't worry about it. as long as he knows what is going on,and is having know part of it, let it go. Yeah, it's going to eat you up inside, becuase you want tosay something to her, but don't. All that is going to do is add more fuel to her fire. She wants you to confront her. That way she will know that you are worried about losing your boyfriend. That will give her a reason to make a move on what is yours. As far as her trying to be your friend. Let her know, in a polite way, that you are not intersted in being friends with her. Don't let her sweet talk you, or make you angry with anything she has to say. You and your boyfriend need to go on as if she weren't even there. She'll get the hint sooner or later, and move on. Just be patient.
2007-02-28 09:44:55 · answer #2 · answered by cim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I f I were in that situation I would confront her. I would say "who do you think you are to act like my friend to my face and go to my b/f behind my back and get upset when you find out we are dating..that is none of your business and I would appreciate if you wouldn't concern yourself with our matters and leave him alone or your face and my fist are going to become real good friends" play it by ear after that and see if she keeps it up and make sure you b/f is cooperating w/ u and not talkin to her or else u have an innevitable situation on your hands..
2007-02-28 09:41:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a woman I'd be pissed. But knowing your guy would respect you more to be the better woman. All you have to do is take her to lunch or dinner and BE NICE about it and tell her that you and your man are very close and you don't think it was cool of her to ask if he was still going out with you or ask why. Tell her he doesn't have to have a reason to be with you. He is and if she doesn't like that you are sorry. Tell her that you'd like to be friends (keep your enemies closer) if she can respect your feelings and know he is taken.
2007-02-28 09:38:27 · answer #4 · answered by Toni V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her. She is not the kind that will like confrontation, since she is the "go behind your back" sort of person. She is not a friend, confront her and tell her to back off. You are stronger than this girl and she knows it. She thinks her strength is in secrets..contront her, bring it out in the open and it will take her so called power away. good luck.
2007-02-28 09:38:03 · answer #5 · answered by wartytoadjody39 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
By the looks of your story she is two faced, confront her in a cival way and ask your BF to confront her with you it will be more serious to her when both of you confront her.
2007-02-28 09:40:39 · answer #6 · answered by Angel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should comfront her.....right know she is jealous of you because you have something she don't have but be the bigger person and don't say anything and that will let her know that your not worried because your man not going no where...i know you feel like cursing her out but it will cause more problems with your relationship so leave it along and let her hate but if she does it in your face then you have to put your foot down because she disrespected you
2007-02-28 09:38:29 · answer #7 · answered by sexsired 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave it all to the guy.
if he likes you enough, he may flirt with her, but that's normal. iknow it's easier said than done, but just watch. if you confront her, you're only showing how insecure you are. this way you can see how insecure HE is. in the end it isnt worth the confrontation, too many problems erupt and you're stuck in the middle of the drama.
2007-02-28 09:37:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes confront her with a baseball bat and hit a home run.
2007-02-28 09:37:47 · answer #9 · answered by dcam47 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I say confront her. Be as civil as possible but you need to get to the bottom of this issue.
2007-02-28 09:35:25 · answer #10 · answered by cj 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is your boyfriend.Then the question is he flirting with her.And probably she is not a true friend.Let her know you don't appreciate how she acts around yor boyfriend.
Real friends don't steal boyfriends.
2007-02-28 09:38:35 · answer #11 · answered by sharen d 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋