my dad and i are always arguing about his new wife she is so moody and mean she always giving me dirty looks and my dad has already fell out with both my sisters because of her my dad said if he had to make a chose i would not like it so that means he would chose her right what should i do i hate arguing but it always about my mum and his wife as he slags my mum off and says his wife is the best when she just come from iran she has no education she thick so please help what do i do
2007-02-28 01:16:28 · 8 answers · asked by persian gal 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Keep to yourself, do what your told with no argument and avoid her at all cost. someday you can go out on your own. i take it your too young yet, but time flies. just keep doing the right thing and don't bad mouth her. for some reason he needs her.
2007-02-28 01:23:05 · answer #1 · answered by brown eyes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What a sad situation. Obviously your Dad has washed his hands of ever being a parent, because he's not.
I know the emotional scars that this leaves, when your father chooses a woman over his daughter. Unfortuntely there is nothing you can do to make your Dad be the man you want him to be.
I do not know how old you are, but I suggest talking to your mum and possibly moving in with her. There's no reason to stay with an emotionally abusing father.
Good luck to you .
2007-02-28 09:25:02 · answer #2 · answered by MJ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you need to have a good long heart to heart talk with you dad. If you are old enough, you may need to gain more independence as well, if you have not does so already. But remember that he is your Father, and nothing replaces family. C O M M U N I C A T E and be willing to listen as well.
2007-02-28 09:25:03 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should start by using periods in your posts so you dont end up with one gigantic run-on sentence that is difficult to follow because the average reader will either lose interest about half way through your question or will get confused and therefore will not answer your question in my opinion though you will probably need to put up with her and make the best of it until you can move out because it is obvious that your evil stepmother is not going anywhere and you should have a calm discussion with your pops about her and do not trash her in your discussion just let him know how she is treating you and your sisters and maybe he will open his eyes and have a talk with her about changing her ways good luck ok bye
2007-02-28 09:32:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
well sometimes ya have to bite your tounge, I dont want this to sound mean but its his choice if he wants to be with her, yes she is wrong for talking crap but, some people are rude. Its your fathers lose if he were to choose to not have you and your sisters a part of his life. Be there for him, even if he is not for you. Smile, hold your head high and be the better person.
2007-02-28 09:23:11 · answer #5 · answered by madman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It can be hard dealing with a new step-mom. Give it time and try to be understanding about your dads' feelings. He is trying to have a relationship with you and his new wife and that can be hard - good luck.
2007-02-28 09:21:25 · answer #6 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately there is nothing you can do. If your father has chosen her over his daughters then have nothing to do with him.
2007-02-28 09:21:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kill her.
2007-02-28 09:19:25 · answer #8 · answered by dcam47 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋