My wife and I recently decided that we are in love enough for us to begin casually dating a girl together. This is a mutual decision. Problem, is we have no idea on how to get started with this.
NOTE: we are normal people and our relationship is rock-solid.
2007-02-28 01:15:13 · 14 answers · asked by webbrew 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We have been going to strip clubs and she really likes it when we are together with another girl. she really wants this. And hey? whats not to like? we have been married 17 years. No kids.
2007-02-28 01:52:37 · update #1
There are lots of people out there that are into that...My husband & I did it for a long time...We looked online for people in our neighborhood....& emailed them...we got to "know them" on-line & then met up with them at a hotel (for safety reasons) It was awesome! Sometimes I brought women home for my husband from work...there are web-sites out there...you just have to know who/what you are looking for...But be careful...you never know who you might be soliciting....
2007-02-28 01:24:38 · answer #1 · answered by east2west92 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A friend of mine and his wife go to strip clubs and pick up girls there. They're very wealthy though so I'm sure that makes it easier.
Another couple I know (who don't know I know their secret) try picking women up in the Yahoo groups area on Yahoo, obviously. They've also signed up for Adult Friend Finder and as best I can tell, they've had at least one encounter with a bisexual female.
Both couples I mention have been at this for years so I don't see where it has been a problem for either of them. Personally, I could never do it because I'm sure it would drive my wife crazy and she's not into bearded clam.
2007-02-28 09:21:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
look for a swingers club in your area, something at least within an hours drive. Also look into adultfriendfinder.com, there's a lot of postulating and faking going on but you can weed through and find someone legitimate but take your time.
finding a girl for a threesome isn't any different than normal, or rather, it is at the very least not any easier.
2007-02-28 11:12:48 · answer #3 · answered by arjo_reich 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What's in it for the girl here?
Are you planning on taking her to dinner and the movies? LOL!
You are not going to find a normal woman for this - and you should beware this could wreck your marriage...no matter how rock solid you think you are.
2007-02-28 09:20:29 · answer #4 · answered by Ker Plunk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my wife and i just retired and we joined the Ymca and we both go swimming and exercise classes together...this is a start...also the whirlpool and sauna loosen you up...its not expensive and you meet a lot of nice people just like yourselves.
Dating? Start to learn to dance if you don't dance already..lots of dance classes. Take some weekend get a way vacations....motel dates?
Volunteer some of your time to help the less fortunate..together.
2007-02-28 09:20:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... i do now of this site called Craigslist.org.... you can post messages on the site with a picture if you like... telling what you want... are interested in.. adn ways for individuals to contact you. You can also search the site for what you are looking for.
Good Luck.... and have fun!
2007-02-28 09:22:05 · answer #6 · answered by Sunshine_Diva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like a joke. I don't see why with such rock-solid relationship you're looking for a casual date.
2007-02-28 09:20:37 · answer #7 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They have websites you can go on in your are and see what the people look like and read a little bit about them. Try craigslist.com they have alot on there besides that too that you might benefit from. hope this helped a lil....yah freaks!! lol, jk
2007-02-28 09:20:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have no clue, from what I've heard though, even though your relationship is solid, it'll change because of this. Good luck.
2007-02-28 09:19:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Email me,my mother in law would like to participate.
2007-02-28 09:18:36 · answer #10 · answered by dcam47 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋