2007-02-28 01:07:13 · 16 answers · asked by A True Gentleman 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She had the baby over twenty years ago. And I know full well that it's perfectly natural etc..., but just thinking that that area had been used for things other than just fun is a real turn-off :-(
2007-02-28 01:18:44 · update #1
whatever rocks your boat mate....don't like it, don't do it.....
2007-02-28 01:10:56 · answer #1 · answered by Funky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you are not ready for any type of intimacy with this woman because of your own insecurity. So what if she's had a baby, do you feel dirty because the child is living proof that someone has been there before you? Or is it the fact that things could possibly go good between you two, but the responsibilities of a child puts you off? Either way, by the sound of the question you are only about 16, and have a lot to learn...good luck!
2007-02-28 01:18:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, your feelings are your feelings, but having a baby is the most natural thing in the world. I don't know how recently she had this baby, but generally there is no reason to "...feel freaked out..." It shouldn't change much about the sexual experience. Do you want your own children some day? Cuz if you want more than one, you'll have to make love to a woman who has had a baby.... If she's right for you - get over your fears and go for it!
2007-02-28 01:13:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 09:29:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Giving birth is the most natural thing is the world, why would it put you off?
I can understand not wanting to sleep with a woman while she was pregnant, but not afterwards.
2007-02-28 01:11:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know if its wrong but i know alot of guys think like this. I think its because they are the mother of your child and you cant think about doing dirty things with them after giving birth, also they think about a baby coming out there and think it might be a bit stretched or saggy after birth!! Sorry to all the mums out there, but I know this is how young guys think as I'm with my boyf and five of his mates every day and have heard them talk about stuff like this! They have no shame!!!!!!!!!!!!
lmao @ chillipop!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-28 01:18:17 · answer #6 · answered by stacie_yst 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bit weird! Does that mean if you get married and have a baby you will never make love to your wife again?
2007-02-28 01:12:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats not far on the woman its only a baby shes had its not like shes got aids get real and grow some brains you men sometimes tut tut
2007-03-03 04:08:52 · answer #8 · answered by cristle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has she 'just' had the baby ? If not you shouldn't worry - my wife's had two babies and it really gets better and better - don't believe the stories you hear about (pardon my French) bucket fannies. Flesh is veru flexible.
2007-02-28 01:15:38 · answer #9 · answered by chillipope 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you ever intend to marry and have kid's you would be in a bit of bother.
2007-02-28 01:14:53 · answer #10 · answered by Phil J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then thats your loss, you are gonna miss out an awfull lot, you are gonna develop big biceps i would imagine fromall that mast***ting
2007-02-28 02:22:14 · answer #11 · answered by Fallen Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋