Ok, my ex-boyfriend broke up with me because he has trust issues and we were going to be apart for a while. This was 5 months ago, he's deployed with a good friend of mine and he keeps telling her that we his deployment is over he wants to marry me. I haven't been in any relationships since then and I atill love him very much, but I wonder why he tells this to her and not to me. He emails me and calls me but he never talks about us getting married he only comments about us getting back together. Should I just move on or should I wait for him?
2007-02-28 01:02:12 · 2 answers · asked by Cocoa 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry, my spelling was a little bad. I meant when his deployment is over.
2007-02-28 01:03:34 · update #1
U can give him a chance, but not right away. Talk to him in person(Meet him) and talk it out first.Y would anyone say break up and next few month say he wants to marry u. it doesn't make sense. i can somehow feel that that guy is desperate to get a girl or get married. he is too harsh. it will not be stable to marry him YET. Let him be your BF AGAIN and then decide.
2007-02-28 01:42:00 · answer #1 · answered by Robin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on... If he's not telling you anything, but telling your friend? that's a little messed up. You never know he may never say anything about it, then come home and you find out he's with someone else. Then your time is wasted. I'm a firm believer in jumping out and taking hold of your dreams and wishes... not waiting on someone to fulfill them for you. I dont know the status of your friend, and I'm not trying to be rude, but that seems a little odd to me...
2007-02-28 09:11:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋