See I have been sexually active with 2 people in my life time and I am talking to this guy who has only had sex one time and he says it doesn't bother him that i have done more then he has but I want to know what other guys think. I mean theres really nothing I haven't done sexually. Both of my exs were more experienced then me and tought me alot of things. What do u think?
2007-02-28 01:00:28 · 29 answers · asked by biggest_duke_fan_ever@yahoo.com 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Experience is relative sweetheart...2 ex-s may be considered not that much of an experience....whereas to others it may be more than enough
Experience in theory is not as important as what you and your guy will have now....because even though one may be an experienced person, it would still be a first with that someone they hadn't been with :)
2007-02-28 01:05:15 · answer #1 · answered by big h 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Dude, you want to relax. Are you going to get frightened and modify the topic, for some thing of your life, at the same time as a lady initiates sex? Oral sex is between the acceptable thoughts and that i'd be prepared to be that in case you honestly gave it 30 seconds you would not pick her to renounce. Being Brazilian has no longer some thing to do with her sexual comprehend-how. it really is in effortless words that; from journey. In a way, i respect you for no longer having sex in the previous. it really is uncommon because it in all fairness ordinary to get those days. so that you're a virgin and eco-friendly. So what? She is commonplace with this, likely by your telling her for all time and that i'm positive she will be in a position to study it on your movements. She isn't waiting for good issues from you. yet, you had extra appropriate unload this insecure element now and get some self belief or she is going to unload you and pass on. See, it really is one portion of be eco-friendly yet to haven't any self belief is a relationship killer, for adult men and females human beings alike. How do i comprehend this? i became an similar way with my first female friend that I went all the way with. Afterwards, as I were given extra tender, it (and that i) were given a lot extra appropriate. you'll too.
2016-12-05 01:37:02 · answer #2 · answered by abigail 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't matter as much as other things in the relationship. After all how else do you gain knowledge and experience but by learning, or being with, those more experienced then you? If we all limited ourselfs to people with the same number of partners as us it would be a very dull world.
On the other hand when "performing" remember it is not necessary to remind him just how or where you learned any of your tricks. He will appreciate your experience the most if you show him how it can benifit him.
2007-02-28 01:08:17 · answer #3 · answered by Steve S 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Having only been with two other men is a big plus, but for him knowing that you've had it in the mouth and butt as well as regular, I'm sure it will get to him eventually and then you'll have THREE guy's under your belt looking for number 4.
Just my honest opinion.
I'd hold off until I met someone I loved and then marry him.
2007-02-28 01:09:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I don't think that you actually having had sex twice to his one....actually makes you more experienced. That would be like 20 times to his 1 or 2 times. But then again there is anothe rname for ppl who have had sex that many times.
2007-02-28 01:05:50 · answer #5 · answered by mrs_endless 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
He'll love it...pass on your knowledge to him & have a great sex life together too....he will love it. At the end of the day he knows about your past, besides what can a virgin teach him....he's already been sexually active too so stop worrying & go for it.
Ignore "hairy monster" he doesn't know what he's talking about Babe.....
2007-02-28 01:05:08 · answer #6 · answered by Funky 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Work on the relationship and let the sex take care of itself. As a guy I like an adventurous girl. Its an asset.
2007-02-28 01:04:53 · answer #7 · answered by Devdude 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well honey, my second husband, was with one girl before me, and had "NO Experience" in the bedroom, we're talking I even had to get on top, that's what little experience he had!!! Sad, but true! And he just loved the fact that I had prior experience with my first boyfriend and first husband!! And like yourself, they too were very experienced in the bedroom and taught me "Plenty" about how to "please a Man!!!" So, my second hubby was like in heaven when we married!!! I was a little on the discouraged side that he didn't know enough about how to "Please Me"! At first. But I fell in-love with him so much, after awhile, none of it mattered anymore! Because I loved him so much, you know. In fact, if he ever gets out of "Prison" .... I plan to date him again, and see what goes on from that point, once he's out... In the meanwhile, we'll just date, and go too church.. And go from there. But, I wouldn't even worry about your having alot of experience... If my Ex-loved it so much in the bedroom that he wants to date me again, one day! Then I wouldn't think too hard on that subject, hun! He loves it, but be careful telling him too much about your past loves!! Guys do not like it when a woman has had too many men, in her life!! Otherwise he'll be just fine about it all !!! And loving every minute of it, so have FUN!!! Smile!!!
2007-02-28 01:34:57 · answer #8 · answered by Hmg♥Brd 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yeah kind of. But in your case, I don't think it is bad and since you had not been with many guys, it should not be bothersome. not to sound like a jerk, but if a girl had moe expereince then me, then I would be a little suspect (I am not exactly pure). Double standard? You betchya, but it my feelings on the subject.
2007-02-28 01:14:11 · answer #9 · answered by AntDU 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You've got a blank canvas to paint so to speak.....you can train this guy to do what you like. Just don't say "you're not doing it right!". Most guys don't mind if their partner "know" more than they do. They are just grateful for the sex. Good luck...
2007-02-28 01:04:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋