(DON'T ANSWER if ur just answering because of ur religion) Okay. I have a girl-friend and she moved away and we decided to keep it going. well she meet this guy (Saturday) 2/24/2007. she's been talking to him on myspace 4 about 2 weeks. she went over there and spent THE WHOLE WEEKEND with him. (WHEN SHE WAS SUPPOSE TO COME HERE) Claims they didn 't do anything. She never told me about this guy until she had already been at his house 4 two days... Then she sends me a message saying OH WERE GETTING MARRIED next weekend. ne ways. I mean it's not that she's with a guy. B.C I have a boyfriend that I love very much. But I have been with him for over 2 years. I don't care if she is with another guy just as long as she's not rushing like this. They just meet and she's tring to me that she is in crazy love with him. I really need sum advice this is creeping me out! OH and 4 the record. My boyfriend is MY BOYFRIEND and this is not sum love triangle.
2007-02-28 00:59:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it's mostly that she is like my best friend... and more than anything I don't want her to be stupid and get hurt... just give me sum advice... THANX
2007-02-28 01:00:07 · update #1
I asked her not too... SHE TOLD ME TO GOT TO HELL! It's not my business! :(
2007-02-28 01:21:15 · update #2
I have to ask, what does religion have to do with this?
Unfortunately, there isn't much you can do here. It's her choice. You just need to be there for her, be supportive, and be prepared to help pick up the pieces if it doesn't work out. Right now, she needs your support more than anything. If you try to deter her from doing this, you might lose her. You can tell her that you are just worried for her, and you only want her to be happy, but be sure she knows that no matter what her decision is, you are there for her. Good luck.
2007-02-28 01:06:15 · answer #1 · answered by kari w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you sweet dear after reading everything here it sounds to me like you really care about your friends well being.
Yes I think tha if she just meet this guy just two weeks ago and then spent two days with him and then all of a sudden they are getting married something is not right with that picture.
I beleive in love at first sight but this I don't think is that lust maybe but love no way.
What can you do pray is all I know to do ask God to let your friend see this man for what he really his.
If there are any dark secerts that he is hiding that God will expose them to he and let here see him for who he really is.
2007-02-28 01:11:05 · answer #2 · answered by Tom Sawyer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg talk her out of it. thats the most ridiculous thing ive ever hears. how can you get married after knowing someone for 4 days. shell be miserable and it will ruin her life...you need to step up and be a bast friend and tell that crazy girl that she is making a mistake. shell either end up divorced in no time, or stuck in the relationship with kids and a good for nothing husband...snap her out of it! QUICK!!!
2007-02-28 01:06:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her honestly about how you feel as her friend, she should know that you're not jealous of her. I had a friend that married a guy she didn't know too well, and her marriage was hell, because she was consently finding out terrible things about him. I hope this helps you.
2007-02-28 01:07:38 · answer #4 · answered by Cocoa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋