After 25 years I am divorced and dating my old HS sweetheart. I am so in love with him I could burst. We are planning on never being apart again. I believe he is my soulmate and for reason's at time we weren't were we needed to be to stay together. Lot's of years, and life's lessons later we are ready.
2007-02-28 00:48:30 · 15 answers · asked by cream city chick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not re-kindled...just started (seriously involved) later than we could've....15 years now...me being 38
You both know from experience, exactly what you are after....
Go for it...cherish it...keep it.
2007-02-28 01:01:01 · answer #1 · answered by Bonnie Lynn 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, 29 years ago I met my soulmate, who asked me to come stay with him when I wanted to break up with his cousin. It was perfect! But after only a few weeks, i got pregnant and was afraid that if I told him I thought I was, that the bubble would burst. I called a hyper friend who told me that we needed to get me out of there! I went along, and was just about to tell her to put the things back when I glanced over at his mom's house and she was watching us. I was scared, and left. When he never came looking for me, i went on with my life. I didn't know that he thought that I wanted to be elsewhere. Six years later, he wanted to see me, (after we'd seen each other a few times), and said that maybe he and I and our son could be a family. I had met someone else who had basically just moved in with me without my telling him to, and he made sure that it wouldn't happen. So my soulmate found someone else. Four years ago, me in an unhappy marriage, and him divorced, he finally told me that he'd always loved me, (which he'd never admit to before), and I dumped the marriage for him. We've been married now for over 3 years, and I couldn't be happier. He feels the same way. When I've told the full story to others, they've said that I should write a book about my life. Good luck dear!
2007-02-28 01:13:31 · answer #2 · answered by karenhar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my college sweetheart and i broke up for 5 years and go ack together, after a year of being together i had to break up with her this time (it was her the first time ) because she basically had the same problem she did before. people do change not always for the better though. never forget what the original cause of the break-up was and pay attention for the same thing
2007-02-28 00:55:05 · answer #3 · answered by whiskywildcard 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have! But after being back together for a year, he decided I had changed too much. I'm not the sweet, shy, innocent girl that I was 25 years ago. But we have the strongest friendship now.
2007-02-28 00:56:04 · answer #4 · answered by Kristi G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are truly ready for an emotionally committed relationship I think its a great idea. If this idea is borne out of three months of sorrow then I would say you need some more alone time to think thinks out and clear your head. Dont rebound -everyone gets hurt. You need a couple of years to be ready for a truly committed relationship in my opinion.
2007-02-28 00:53:26 · answer #5 · answered by Devdude 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good Luck with that.... I have tried to rekindle an old love before, but after a while we realized why we broke up to begin with.
2007-02-28 00:52:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 20:14:44 · answer #7 · answered by noto 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although I haven't rekindled any old flames....
I'm a hopeless romantic and believe that love conquers all..
I wish you all the best ....
2007-02-28 00:58:08 · answer #8 · answered by CURIOUS 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I rekindle our old flame everyday, that is what keeps us happy. We have this thing that we should never let our fire die out, but to keep it going.
2007-02-28 00:53:33 · answer #9 · answered by Guess Who 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes love is better the second time around
you are both more mature and can enjoy the relationship
2007-02-28 00:52:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋