People call me ugly?

Question

people call me ugly and it puts me down but i am not.But i still go out with people people be coming up to me and asking for a date and if i say no thanks they say i am ugly anyways so whats shoild i do

Answer 1

I think most people are attracted to confident people, so if you are really confident you can get away with being ugly. Unless you have some deformity

Answer 2

I know it's hard to do, but you should try not to let it get to you when people say stuff like that.
It's not fair to call someone ugly just because they won't go out with you, these people are wrong and you know it!
Do me a favor and listen very carefully to "Ugly" by the Sugarbabes. That song has so much to it, it really says it all.
When I was in high school people called me fat. Of course it put me down, specially because I wasn't fat, but I let them control my eating habits and everything that had anything to do with the way I looked.
Don't let them get to you, because they are wrong! People are different and they should be, it would be a bore if everyone looked the same. Taste differs but that doesn't mean someone is ugly because you don't like them so much.

Answer 3

Apparently you must not be ugly if people are coming up to you and asking you out.
And those people who have the nerve to call you ugly after you reject them are just retaliating because you said no.
Always remember, beauty comes in many forms and it is in the eye of the beholder.
All that matters is what you think of yourself.

Answer 4

You turned them down, you bruised their ego so yeah you're ugly to them. Actually, you're not ugly at all. People are just mean. Ugly is a word that people use to describe someone who is different looking. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder so don't let it get to you.

Answer 5

I'm ugly and proud of it, far better to have a good personality and be approachable and friendly with people than a vacant beauty. Not that all beauties are vacant of course, but what i mean is that personality far outweighs looks, we all get old and wrinkly along the line anyway.

Answer 6

Maybe they are not talking about your looks - by the way you put your question, they might be referring to your attitude.

In anyway - there are no ugly people. Attractiveness just appeals to different tastes and it is a matter of finding the person who does think you are attractive and who you in turn thinks are attractive

Answer 7

think about this............... if you were ugly why would they come and ask you out?? They are just feeling incsecure because you rejected them. There's really nothing that you can do other than ignore them and feel sorrry for them or come back with some smartass retort, I can't think of a good one right now, but I am sure someone else one here can come up with a good one

Answer 8

If they are calling you ugly, then just ignore them. It is obvious that they have the self esteem issues, not you. Just brush it off and go on with your day or night! Live life to the fullest! Have fun and keep a smile on you face!

Answer 9

Your only ugly if you think you are. Stand strong hold your ground be a man. Stop worrying about what people say. You know what you are your a King so start acting like one.

Answer 10

it sounds like the people who are saying it are mad at you for saying no to them. Don't let it bother you. And even if you are ugly, which you probably aren't, being ugly isn't so bad, and everyone has something beautiful about them. God has blessed you with life, use it wisely and don't let people tear you down. God bless.