He hasn't seen her since she was 10.She's 34 now. He says he has no desire to see her. Saying he left home at 16 dew to her abuse. I.E. ripping up his home work, base ball cards etc.. How long can he stay upset? I want to invite her up to visit,but he says he wants nothing to do with her dew to sibling abuse.It's been over 20 years. Is he being unreasonible, or should I let it be?
2007-02-28 00:16:51 · 5 answers · asked by lucyp1958 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I think you have to let it be because if it back fires then you are going to be the one he blames.I know what it is like to think you are right and want to run in and fix the situation but it is and has to be his personal choice.Sorry !!!
2007-02-28 00:27:53 · answer #1 · answered by stegall_sherry 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he's not over the things that happen to them years ago, maybe this is the time to patch things up between her sister, its been years and a lot of things have changed, maybe her sister too! Try to make him understand that he needs to forgive her sister and let baygons be baygons!
2007-02-28 08:33:24 · answer #2 · answered by konfuzed_baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it be. It's your boyfriends decision not to see his sister. Don't push the issue or you may end up pushing your boyfriend away from you.
2007-02-28 09:54:08 · answer #3 · answered by Jaime A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of this one. It's between your bf and his sister.
2007-02-28 08:26:44 · answer #4 · answered by Lucy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it be , hard to solve that problem , u are only his gf
2007-02-28 09:59:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋