O.K. My girlfriend finished with me on Sunday, things had been going downhill anyway,and the stress of it all had caused me to have an eating disorder which I told her about, & said i was seeing a doctor bout it,she felt 'we' couldnt continue.We had dated 4 a year. She said she didnt want me contacting her, & that she wanted 2 weeks. I spoke to her today,she said that for my sake, 2 weeks was best to get over her,& then we'd have to see what happened. I said, in 2 weeks, if I ask u out 4 a drink as friends,would u want2?She said that it'd depend on how 'I (Not her!)' felt, bcos it isn't always easy..... the thing is....i still like her,& i know if I cured my prob,she may hav me bak,but i doubt it. so questions...has anyone had a situation lyk ths?is it best to meet her aftr 2 weeks,wht shud i say?shud i just never speak 2her again? please let me know!....UPDATE: Last night she sent me a text out of the blue, saying how guilty she felt & nevr meant to hurt me&hates herself! NOW WHAT!!
2007-02-28 00:16:04 · 2 answers · asked by Soliloquy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Her text last night doesn’t mean that she’s got in mind of getting back with you. She may just be feeling that when you were at your lowest she basically did what some would be an inexcusable act. She left you instead of trying to stick it out or even help you. She can have some guilt about what she did as far as dumping you. You need to get yourself together and find happiness within yourself first before trying to please and make others happy. You can’t make someone else happy if you can’t make yourself happy. Concentrate on working on you then look to bring someone else into your life. Let her go, move on with your life. When she left you, she showed that she really doesn’t care and doesn’t want to help you get your life together. Don’t make anymore contact with her, no calls, no dates….nothing. I wish you the best in getting your life together but it won’t happen if you continue to be more concerned about her.
2007-02-28 01:11:13 · answer #1 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she now wants to get back together with you,And how many times do you call her anyway?Because if its to many times that wouldnt be a good sighn and if you keep on calling her and only the answering machine picks up just make sure you only call her in like 1-3 times so it wont be to many times meaning its desperate
2007-02-28 00:22:31 · answer #2 · answered by kayleen cheng 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋