What do you think of the situation, where a very mature 15 year old girl dates older men, ranging between, 27 and 42..?
2007-02-28 00:13:43 · 14 answers · asked by neeneeuno 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would like to thank everyone in advance for atking the time to answer this question and the question is been asked for a phycology paragraph in a magazine and the publics veiw is very much appreciiated.
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2007-02-28 00:49:14 · update #1
At best, I would probably think that the 15 year old needs counseling, and that the 27-42 year old men are sexual predators.
Also, if the 15 year old were *really* very mature, she'd realize that she shouldn't be dating men that much older than she was.
2007-02-28 00:16:46 · answer #1 · answered by chrisatmudd 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Im easy going but thats kinda ouff the scale at 27 and certainly no at 42...
Think of a scale... the older the guy the less ok it is.
Maturity of the guy counts for a lot.
Aim for a few years older like still in late teens or early twenties.
The reason being guys that age will still be hanging with mates, going cinema etc and doing pretty much what you do other then they can drink legally and get inot nightclubs...
We would only take a 15-16 year old into a nightclub we knew was youth and safe like alternative scenes... and thats to dance not get drunk.
You may get somone who has been shy, or missed out big time into early 30s but they normally go with 18plus.
But then thats only if they have hardly dated and genuinely into the same stuff as you and then you should not be getting sexaul
Thats only a few exceptions the general rule is no...
As said more other teenagers around you age is best, or up to early 20s if they guy is not a player and shy and sweet.
2007-02-28 05:57:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
However "mature" this 15 year old girl is she is still 15! and a 27-42 year old man should know better. This would be child abuse and is unacceptable by anyones standards.
I have a 15 year old daughter and if a man that old was sniffing round they would have to get passed me first...not a good idea!
2007-02-28 00:22:39 · answer #3 · answered by isleofskye 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Age gaps are OK once you have a bit of life experience (13 years between my partner and I) but a much older man dating a 15 year old girl is wrong however mature you are - they should have better sense, and the fact tgey don't would lead me to question their motives.
2007-02-28 00:17:12 · answer #4 · answered by crazylady 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
as mature as she is she is still a child and for a man of 27 or 42 to take advantage of that is wrong the age of consent is 16 for a reason .
2007-02-28 00:19:14 · answer #5 · answered by londonletch 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am not sure that a very mature 15yr old would want to date guys that much older than her ,the main sign of maturity is accepting the fact of one's age and that going through the various stages of growing up includes spending time with one's contemporaries and sharing their experiences .It seems to me that young girls who seek out older guys are hiding from something .
2007-02-28 08:17:56 · answer #6 · answered by Rosie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd kill any man of the ages you mention if he came within 100 feet of my 15 year old daughter
2007-02-28 01:17:57 · answer #7 · answered by Funky 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
is it you? thats terrible. Think about it. When your 30, the 40 year old will be 55! they could be you dad. They were 25 when you were born hun!
2007-02-28 00:23:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would say that however mature you think you are , you are probably not, i thought like you at that age and rushed head strong into a lot of stuff only to regret them. stick to someone closer to your own age hun, trust me it's for the best.
2007-02-28 02:47:07 · answer #9 · answered by Fallen Angel 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
they are paedophiles, that is simply wrong. what does a 15 year old have in common with guys 27+
wrong, wrong, wrong !
2007-02-28 00:17:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋