O.K. My girlfriend finished with me on Sunday, things had been going downhill anyway,and the stress of it all had caused me to have an eating disorder which I told her about, & said i was seeing a doctor bout it,she felt 'we' couldnt continue.We had dated 4 a year. She said she didnt want me contacting her, & that she wanted 2 weeks. I spoke to her today,she said that for my sake, 2 weeks was best to get over her,& then we'd have to see what happened. I said, in 2 weeks, if I ask u out 4 a drink as friends,would u want2?She said that it'd depend on how 'I (Not her!)' felt, bcos it isn't always easy..... the thing is....i still like her,& i know if I cured my prob,she may hav me bak,but i doubt it. so questions...has anyone had a situation lyk ths?is it best to meet her aftr 2 weeks,wht shud i say?shud i just never speak 2her again? please let me know!....UPDATE: Last night she sent me a text out of the blue, saying how guilty she felt & nevr meant to hurt me&hates herself! NOW WHAT!!
2007-02-28 00:07:35 · 5 answers · asked by dafadf a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this could go on forever. when it is right and good i think one will know it and it {the relationship} wont be so hard
2007-02-28 00:16:33 · answer #1 · answered by flower4bird 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay ,that's a lot to deal with and you shouldn't be with her. Not because she's bad or anything, but because your not really ready to be in a relationship. Spend sometime on you . Be your best self first then get a girl friend. You owe it to your wife(when you marry ) to get your head on strait. Plus you want to be shore not to go down this road again. I think you already know what your going to do and any advice you receive here isn't going to change that. So you do your thing and I hope it works out for you in the end. Good luck!
2007-02-28 08:17:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now you need think, if all of this drama is worth it. Now if it is causing a problem now, I will hate to see what is going to happen next. You need to work on yourself, and read books on self esteem, And think long and hard, how you are going to handle your situation, Now you could just be friends, to see if things get any better, and no attachments, just in case, things does not work out! Start to do things to please you!
2007-02-28 08:16:27 · answer #3 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is playing games. If you like games pursue her.
Be warned though once she knows you like to play, she'll always be playing.
If you don't want games,move on.
2007-02-28 08:17:23 · answer #4 · answered by alexdarc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u wait till 2 weeks first. If she really luv u, she will find u back..
2007-02-28 08:13:21 · answer #5 · answered by babyga1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋