women always have an easier time in a breakup because they are able to find guys faster than guys can find a new girl. i'd say thats the case 90% of the time, am i wrong, and how is that fair?
2007-02-27 23:57:46 · 13 answers · asked by steveo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are right and it is not fair. Women have a lot of advantages that us Men don't have.
2007-02-28 00:04:13 · answer #1 · answered by Drunk365 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It has nothing to do with being fair, What you have to do, is be friends for a while, so you can get to know a person, and then you can move the relationship to another level. and that how you can keep your partner. but I do not think it is no easier for a guy or a girl, in handling a breakup! it is always a difficult thing to go through.
2007-02-28 00:06:18 · answer #2 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever tried to look at it this way: Men just take more time to process the whole breakup, which helps them to make their following relationship better.
My ex boyfriend waited 4 months before he started over after we broke up. He's still together with that same girl after 4 years now whereas I totally didn't wait that long ... I didn't take the time to process everything right away and because of that it took me much longer than it should have taken me.
How is it fair? I think that just depends on how you look at it ...
2007-02-28 00:05:15 · answer #3 · answered by anneke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason women can find men faster is that we are willing to settle just so we won't be alone. If we were more particular about the types of men we are with then women wouldn't find men quite so quickly after a breakup. Sorry....is that a politically incorrect thing to say???? If so it must be true.
2007-02-28 00:05:52 · answer #4 · answered by phets_80231 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm glad you think so - maybe because once a woman get devorced or have kids there chances of getting a new man decreases to about 10%, so how is that fair.
I am devorced and have 2 boys - since my devorce 5 years ago - I haven't had a man in my life because men don't want baggage or some crap like that
2007-02-28 00:06:11 · answer #5 · answered by Juanita L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experiences it has been quite the opposite. After my break ups it seems the men moved on faster than I did. So I would have to say it's all in perception.
And who said life was fair anyway?☼
2007-02-28 00:02:38 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What kinda question is this ?!? First of all. Only losers can't get laid, with in a couple of phone calls. 2nd where do you get your stats? 3rd Take what you can get, who cares what she looks like (excluding xtremely fugly girls). You can always deny, everything. 4th Life is NOT FAIR, SO GET USED TO IT ! Finally, Are you in a contest or something? Cuz if your are, You, already, LOST !!!!!!
2007-02-28 00:12:17 · answer #7 · answered by confeuzdus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who says that?? yes they are able to find guys easily (because in most cases, its the guys that make the first move in approaching them), but their heart doesnt move as fast. you see, sometimes gals go shopping after a breakup to get their mind off it, its the same as gettin a new guy... they just accept them to get their mind off the break up.. and then only it gradually grows to something else...
but guys..... after a break up, they just sit and think of it. they wouldnt go out to socialise, and therefore...no apraochin girls... so.. they move slower... i guess
2007-02-28 00:03:50 · answer #8 · answered by pinkdoughnuts 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It happens, but it also goes with luck. Try asking other girls out dude, nothing comes on a silver platter.
2007-02-28 00:03:57 · answer #9 · answered by The GunnJack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not always true, my ex has new dates every week! and booty calls to phone up. It depends on how your social life is. I was single for months before i met my new man. It did not want to have one night stands and luckily i have the man of my dreams now.
2007-02-28 00:03:51 · answer #10 · answered by wonder 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋