I dated someone for nearly two years and we recently ended things on good terms. However, afterwards some bad stuff happened between us and we ultimately ended up not speaking to one another for almost six months. When we ended things he expressed wanting to be friends as did I. We've recently started emailing eachother back and forth very casually but whats the next step? Are there any tips? And how can we make this work without falling for one another again?
2007-02-27 23:47:52 · 4 answers · asked by Erica 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i just recently broke up with my bf for almost 3 yrs. he wanted us to be friends. im struggling and have a difficult time moving on. i still love him but im afraid things wouldnt work out for us when we decide to get back together once again. remember the problem u had and the reason why u broke up. just be careful, u dont want to get hurt again, do u?
2007-02-28 01:44:25 · answer #1 · answered by intense35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know they say friends can become lovers but lovers can never go back to being friends.. i however disagreed there for a bit and i think my ex did too cause we tried stayin friends and we managed for 2 yrs almost... but then she got married and everytime we talked it'd be bout her kids and her hubby and as happy as i was for her ... it was very hard for me cause i used to imagine my life with her jus the way she has it with her husband now... so yeah we can try and we mean well too most times but its veryyyyyyyyyy hard ... on a positive thought though i have no grudges against her ... she chose to stop talkin to me and i respected that..... so yeah we let go of eachother 3 yrs back... and im sure shes happy n well but i do think of her everyday .... so yah it stays with u !! i guess...thats why they call it love... lol it aint easy !
2007-03-08 04:03:40 · answer #2 · answered by I V X 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just be normal and keep reminding him that friends is all you are intersted in. and if he goes beyond that line, stop talking until he realises you are serious
2007-03-08 07:48:50 · answer #3 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont waste your time
2007-03-08 03:32:40 · answer #4 · answered by rihannsu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋