I have issues with showing my body to my husband since I had our child 2 1/2 years ago and since everything saged 4 inches. I mean I totally freak when he comes in the bathroom and I am in my bra and panties. He says he loves me just the way I am but I know I'm chunky. I weigh probably 132 and Im only 5 foot 3. Hes really getting tired of this. and it makes major issues in bed Should I worry about this so much or just let him see. Its so hard because I know all the other women hes been with before we got married are bikini women,(but then agian they didnt have his child either) Just answer. oh and Im 20 hes 21.
2007-02-27 23:28:12 · 8 answers · asked by moodymouse54 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh honey it gets so much worse. Appreciatte your body now the way it is. I went through this too. I was 100 pounds and had a tight little body for years then I gained 20 pounds, then 20 pounds more. You need to learn to love yourself for the way you are. It is hard, I won't lie about that but you are still the woman he loves. Don't worry yourself to death over it.
2007-02-27 23:36:34 · answer #1 · answered by hthr_1974 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, you should WORKOUT !!!!!! I'd have issues with you too, If I was your man. What man wants to have a fat wife? Many women have children. There is no reason to be FAT.Having a kid is no excuse, to let your appearance go.. Two and a half years is a very long time. I would have told you " SHAPE UP OR SHIP OUT" , along time ago. Worry about whatever you want. You shouldn't, be ashamed of your body, but you shouldn't be fat either. Your husband isn't get'n what was printed on your label. If you know what I mean. He signed up for a HOTTIE not a FATTY.
2007-02-28 07:43:56 · answer #2 · answered by confeuzdus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to work on you, you need to get your confidences back. Learn to love yourself, and learn to work it, buy some nice sexy night clothing, and take care of your husband, because if you don't someone else, bigger then you will. Read books on self esteem. You are not over weight, you can work with what you have. So do what you have to do, so you can keep your husband happy!
2007-02-28 07:43:16 · answer #3 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as ur husband he has a right 2 c ur body whtever condition it is.
juz show it 2 him it might work wonders 4 ur relationship
2007-02-28 07:33:37 · answer #4 · answered by dramaqueen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop being insecure! Your husband thinks you are beautiful and thats AMAZING! He loves you alot, and dont deprieve him of happiness. You need to be confident ! Work out, that might boost your confidence.
2007-02-28 07:31:59 · answer #5 · answered by Encouragement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he says he doesnt care so why dont u believe him? he obviously loves you for who you are and is committed to your relationship. if you that concerned about your body, start doing something about it, review your diet and exercise a little, you will feel better for taking these positive steps
2007-02-28 07:35:49 · answer #6 · answered by sydneygal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a fine weight hon....let him help you realize your sex appeal.
2007-02-28 07:31:44 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Mommy to 3 year old Jacob and baby on the way♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
adjust with him
2007-02-28 07:31:18 · answer #8 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋