I am always depressed. I mean my boyfriend wants me to choose betwen three guys who I really like I feel like my family doesnt undersatand me neither does my firends. I am a lot ofthr times either crying or happy rupset. I cant deal with it anymore. I wish for once someone is my life understood what I am going throug and actually took the time out of their schedule ro help me. Its not fair anymore. My friend Jackie trys to understand me and help but she doenst understand that I am constyantly like this. I mean my friends go on ith their lives and I am left behind. Ther only girl who understands me is Jackie and Jamie. I am so tired of being the way I am. How all the girls at school are like a size 0 and I am not. Just because I am not a size 0 does not mean I am not beutiful. I am me and I cant change that. My friends dont even care I am so sick and turedof having to put a smile on my face when all I want to do is cry. I cant even cry in front of my boyfriend without him worrying.
2007-02-27 22:07:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
You need to change your lifestyle - RIGHT NOW.
1- Go see a counsellor. Make an appointment today
2- Take yourself out of the situation. Imagine you are in a foriegn land with none of your known people there, but there are lots of friendly and happy people, what would you do ? You would obviously go meet new people. So what i am trying to say is, just go join new activities so that you get to meet new people.
3- Do voluntary service. Go join a group that helps kids or old people in hospital
4 - Join a new sport
try
5 - Adding things to your wardrobe
6- Or a hobby
7- Get a pet
8- Try to answer other people's questions on Yahoo answer.
Basically, try something new and meet new faces and people. Remember, angles are always watching over you. They want you to be happy. That is why they are guiding you to talk your problems out. You will get it solved dont worry, it might take time. It is a hard learning, but once you are thru this, you will feel more beautiful and confident than ever.
Good luck and tons of healing love your way.
2007-02-27 22:55:06 · answer #1 · answered by vittrash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry people dont understand
Depression is real and sometimes makes you feel isolated from family and friends because they dont understand what you are going through. Contact your doctor if you can, or join a support group, there is groups on the net for people dealing with depression. Depression is full of highs and lows, for a few days you might feel fine then it hits you again. Dont feel under pressure about your weight everyone is different.
Real beauty is not determined by your size, just enjoy your life.
Just be you............
2007-02-28 06:53:36 · answer #2 · answered by pinky.p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you seen a doctor about it, to find out whether it is clinical depression, which may require medication for some time. Also, medication can take a while to work, so view: http://www.relax7.com/7.php and the blogs of Shan Eris on "tackling depression ar www.myspace.com and choose one of the techniques, and practice it for a minimum of 20 mins./day. See: http://choosediet.blogspot.com/ and select one. Snack on as many celery sticks (and the occasional carrotstick) as you like, drinking at least 8 x 250 ml glasses of water/day. Several small meals are preferable to 1 - 3 larger ones. Also view: www.depression.com/- and http://www.beattheblues.info/?
2007-02-28 08:14:17 · answer #3 · answered by CLICKHEREx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen dear friend,
Firstly stop assuming that everyone will understand you.
Remember that prayer....O Master grant that I may never seek .. so much to be consoled as to console..to be understood as to understand.
Secondly, start believing you are the best..size 0 is not all that matters ,you know. You have 10,000 unique things your peers don't have . Be proud of them.
List all your positive points and qualities on a paper and keep it close to you all day....keep reading it when you feel low..believe me, tihgs will work out just fine. You will be proud when they do about just having survived...
All the best and believe you can do it!!!!
2007-02-28 06:20:58 · answer #4 · answered by sindy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are very young aren't you? Its called puberty sweetie and itsa *****. You may think that your parents dont understand you have you tried to actually sit down and talk with them. Counseling may help--a school counselor, a pastor, a trusted adult. Kids your own age can't support you bcuz they r kids themselves. I was never popular in school but it was because I have severe arthritis, walk with a limp, have crooked fingers-but my face is pretty, but I'm overweight. So things could be worse but that dos not lighten the load YOU are carrying. email pammichristine@yahoo.com if you would like to talk more.
2007-02-28 06:19:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋