i proposed to my best friend and now things are going worst.?

Question

i have very bad experience, i proposed my best frnd, for 1st 3 months things were going fine after that we had fights for some misunderstandings and now we have daily fights. my heart dont always want to talk her and she also want after dailly fights from 6 months still we cant live a single day without talking each other though we only fight things are going really bad....now i think because of this love i'm loosing my best frnd, each others respect, trust & value..dont know wats going wrong...i can see only one thing i'l end up with loosing my world's best frnd and i can live without my love but cant live without my best frnd. if somebody have gone through same experience please share with me what should i do?

Answer 1

ylour case is as mine. the issue is understanding... you will have to compromise if you a male... she will not understand. and shes not your friend but a lover..... and you hers..... ya things will become worse... you;ll must have thrown **** on each other and most of the time you must have patched up also.... she may not too.................................

so try to get along by ignoring her loose talks and taunts... be alert that you dont get hyper on her... ignore most of things which you dont like.... she wont stop easily but things will improve... dont over pamper too and dont bend down too much... handle diplomatically........

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Answer 2

i think it is best for you to move on. If you continue to pursue your best friend, you will end up fighting even more and does not serve any purpose of a relationship. You have to deal with this lost now rather than later. Otherwise, the same thoughts will run through your head over and over again and this in turn might lose your focus in your career. So think again, whether you would want your friend who keeps on fighting with you everyday of your life or you want a successful career that you can be proud of in the future.

Answer 3

It appears you are more ready for it than your partner. I have been with a woman for 7 1/2 years and asked her a few times to marry me. Each time, she had a legitimate reason for saying no, but we are still together and trying to work things out all for the better.
I would say to hold off for a while and see where things end up between the two of you, but keep searching for others, just in case.

Answer 4

Maybe you guys need to take a break from each other. Just to get away from the arguing. She's more than just your best friend now. Also what do you mean proposed? Asked her to marry you or asked her to date you? Either way, arguement is unhealthy and undermines attraction.

Take a break, give yourselves time to miss each other and then you'll realize why you two wanted to be together in the first place.

Answer 5

I'm sorry haven't been through this but i do think you should sit down and talk it out with her without either of you getting angry. this needs to be done. i've seen it so often how relationships break up through lack of communication. you should sort out your problems now and see whether the two of you really want to get married and if you do find out a way to stop these arguments. when you feel like the both of you might get into argument, you should leave room and come back when things calm down and then talk about it.

Answer 6

whilst i replaced into in 6th grade there replaced into this female that I ditched for yet another team of pals. My new team of pals and that i made exciting of her ordinary and wrote notes approximately her and stated her applicable in front of her. sooner or later, all of us ended up making her cry and that i felt so terrible after that :( i ended putting out with that team and for a on a similar time as i replaced right into a friendless loser because of the fact my previous pal that I ditched under no circumstances talked to me back and the hot team of pals began ignoring me O_o i assume I deserved all of that yet nonetheless xD

Answer 7

You can break off the engagement, but don't expect her to stay around to be "friends". I would suggest, if you truly love her, to try and work out your "misunderstandings" before you marry.

Answer 8

Then u need to leave..U need to love someone whom cant live without.. and always also understand u need to give more preference to your love than your friend.. or after marriage u need to give more importnce to ur wife than ur friend...So decide ..u need to give time to both and make ur love understand how important ur friend is to you..

Answer 9

Friends can't be lovers and lovers can't friends...choose now before it's too late... You cannot have both.....you will never have both.... girlfriend or best friend?? That's why Life is unfair...

Answer 10

frnd........

my experience is little bit similar to urs.......

i love my closest frnd.......
he does same .......i admited that i love him but he didnt......
after some days some1 of our common frndz said him something rude about me ........
tat was bad thing.......
we fought like we eachothers enemy..!!!!!!!!

but we r tat much mature.......

our ego was coming in middle......even mine.....!
but he forgot about every thing and came to me.....

nothing is gonna happen without u go to her and talk .....

he did same....... in one meeting we solved our every misunderstanding.........

now we r not only good fnrnds........but confess tat we love eachother .......

u just go to her,........ talk ......she must be mature to understand u........bcoz she is ur good frnd.........!!!!

best of luck......

yaah one thing is tat.......u can take help of ur any common frnd............