If you're in love and you have bought a flat together, been with eachother for two years! Then at the housewarming party, things get slightly out of control and you end up having a foursome (sex with other ppl) is that ok?
2007-02-27 21:29:26 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no never ever.!!!!!
2007-02-27 21:32:45 · answer #1 · answered by sherry 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What are you saying here....that you & your b/f got too drunk & ended up having a foursome with another couple?
Well sweetheart when too much drink or drugs [if they were involved] flows too easily & obviously gets consumed way too much then stuff like your talking of can & does happen.
The thing to remember now it's already taken place, there's not a lot of point in beating yourself up over it now.
Things can take place when we're drunk that we wouldn't normally do when sober. Personally I'd find it really difficult to cope with if say my husband got too drunk & had sex with someone else & I know if I did that sort of thing there would have to be something very seriously wrong with my relationship for a thing like that to happen in the first place......BUT....that's me & we're all different.
You & your partner have to make a way forward now & just try to put all this behind you. Without sounding like I'm trying to preach at you Babe, just be careful the amount of drink you consume in the future or even before you have a drink....have a talk with yourself & & confirm that should you get drunk again you won't be doing anything like having sex with someone you shouldn't be.....that's what I do before parties & the like & it's always kept me on the straight & narrow....
Drop any guilt you may have Honey as it's not good, learn from your mistakes yes...but drop the guilt.....
2007-02-28 05:59:29 · answer #2 · answered by Funky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well personally I wouldnt like it but I guess its up to the four individuals involved!!! If you're into that kind of thing then I dont see the problem - if ye ended up there by mistake or something then Im sure they might be a few red faces for a few weeks - but really its overcomeable!!! I think you might need to chat to your partner though - just make sure its a once off occurance - unless ye enjoyed it so much you're gona make it a regular thing!
xx
2007-02-28 07:40:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That must av been some house warming lol. id never do it my self could never stand the thought ov my lad with some one else even if i was there. if u are both ok about it then do what u want. but just careful it could cause problems with jealousy deep down in the end. ya know if one of u where paying more attention to some one else than u were with each other.
2007-02-28 05:57:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it isn't ok,there is no way this is love,If it was you wouldn't dream of sharing your body with someone else,and the very thought of your partner having sex with someone else should be an unbearable thought for you.Plus you still have to face the people you had sex with,i would be mortified,making love should be with the one person you want to share your life with.This probably wasn't the answer you wanted,and i'll probably get a thumbs down,but you did ask,sorry.
2007-02-28 05:39:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am in love, and we have just bought a house, and we are very much together, but i dont think i would indulge in such activity.... i dont think i would like to share him with another man, and cannot imagine myself being with another man - that too in front of him !!
you guys better talk about it and agree that it will never happen again and see if you can put it in the past.
good luck..
2007-02-28 06:00:38 · answer #6 · answered by GorGeous_Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i think it will never be the same after that cos no good ever comes of it but if everyone is happy with it and you and your partner are happy then i wouldnt worry about it theres no harm in experimenting, i just hope there are no repercussions for you.
2007-02-28 07:05:22 · answer #7 · answered by sweetness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your partner was one of the other three people, and if what happened that night is not causing any problems in your relationship, then yes its ok.
Not something I would repeat personally.
2007-02-28 05:35:30 · answer #8 · answered by luz2loz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like alcohol (too much of it) was at the root of this. Talk to your bf and find out how he feels about what happened. Take it from there.
2007-02-28 05:56:11 · answer #9 · answered by jet-set 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously don,t think it is ok or you would not be asking this question. I know that situation is ok in a lot of relationships, but I think when you are questioning it, it is not right for you
2007-02-28 05:40:18 · answer #10 · answered by Janet C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, no. If you have to ask, then definitely no. That demonstrates doubt and doubt is a common indication of guilt. And if you're feeling guilty, then obviously something is wrong.
2007-02-28 05:36:15 · answer #11 · answered by The_Music_Man 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋