I have been talking to this guy for about 6 months now, and i feel that we are really close. the thing is he lives two hours away from me and we never really see each other, i always seem to be down because of this and i am always crying but to make it even more confusing i'm sure thay i even like him ... he told me he loved me the other day and i found it hard to reply, i did i told him i loved him back but i'm not sure i meant it?? i don't what to do should i carry on with him even though its tearing me apart or just let things go??? please help me
2007-02-27 21:27:33 · 9 answers · asked by <3...Carla...<3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
moving closer isn't possible we are both only 16 :(
2007-02-27 21:44:51 · update #1
yeah i totally do love you... wtf???
2007-02-27 22:15:53 · update #2
First off, come clean and tell him that you're sorry, but you don't have the same feelings for him. Tell him that you just didn't know what to say and that is what came out, but that you don't feel that way.
It may be that the distance is getting in the way of you developing stronger feelings for him - probably self-preservation. If this is the case, is moving closer an option? If not, then it might be best to end this relationship and find someone closer to home.
Your sadness is probably just loneliness, but you might also be suffering from mild depression. You might want to talk with a counselor.
2007-02-27 21:34:56 · answer #1 · answered by J F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this, but long-distance relationships are hard even when you ARE sure you love each other. I know you had the best of intentions when you said you loved him back--and I've done that before, myself. But if you aren't certain, I really think you should tell him. And while you don't have to stop seeing each other altogether, I would suggest "taking a break" to see other people. Life is way too short to spend it in a relationship that doesn't make you happy, and maybe this way you'll find one that does. Good luck.
2007-02-28 05:32:15 · answer #2 · answered by nerdygrrl130 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let things go. He's far away and it will be easier on him than if you were close. He cares about you just too much to be just friends at the moment. Give it time and maybe you can build a friendship up again.
2007-02-28 05:30:25 · answer #3 · answered by Aphrodite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in kinda the same situation..
my boyfriend lives all the way in the city and i live two hours upstate..
i love him to death though..
but my friend tells me hes been known to cheat in the past...soo i get a little nervous all the time..
just think about it do you like him?
once you figured that out youll know what to do..
if you should stay with him or whatever you decided to do..
hope i helped
2007-02-28 05:31:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just don:t how you can be in love with some one you never meet if you not sure you meant it than to me you don:t love him and i would say he dose love you that it just talking so let think go and move on
2007-02-28 05:39:41 · answer #5 · answered by EVA J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd get out of there if I was you your not happy, and that's what is important, let him down gently just tell him you can't handle the distance and get out there and find someone who makes you happy, you deserve it, hope all goes well good luck
2007-02-28 05:32:46 · answer #6 · answered by ♥~shona~♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel that you shouldn't keep on going with the relationship if you don't love him you might hurt him and yourself.. but also you must communicate tell him about how you feel.
2007-02-28 05:50:28 · answer #7 · answered by 350 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if living 2 hours away is a convient excuse...guess what????? you do not love the guy. End it!
2007-02-28 05:31:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you love me ? ^\^
2007-02-28 05:58:55 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋