I have a daughter of 3 1/2 years, and she is only the child we have, and me & my husband both are working. If we praised the other childred she feel bad, and if we say that she is not doing dance well or anything , then she feel very bad and cry.
And I also will have work in house, So i daily cann't concentrate onher studies. If we say sometimes she will go and study and somtimes not.
And moreover she is having very dry skin, till FEB also her skin is very wrough and dry. So i don't know what to put daily to her skin. Kindly guide me, Thank u,
2007-02-27 21:22:34 · 9 answers · asked by sonu 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
a simple and st ans. dont pamper her too much . being the only kid u both r trying to make her a rt kid for urself acc to u and during this time u never fail to pamper her always. stop this. no wonder she is just a kid yet but these things develop slowly and steadily in her mind and by the time u guys will discover she will b a gud headache for u. make her study the rt path.
for secondly it wud b better to consult a skin specialist.
2007-02-27 21:50:34 · answer #1 · answered by nice_lady559 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur daughter is jus 3 n a half yrs old to this world.. let her njoy her childhood for some more years.. for her its the age for sleeping, eating and playing ..
For heaven's sake don compare her traits/ capabilities of hers with those of other children.. If u continue doing so, it ll mislead to some complexes in her..
Encourage her even if she doesnt do things well.. its jus the bloomin stage.. let her take some time to find her interests..
After all she is jus a bud.
Spend some time with her asking how the day was spent.. ask about things which she likes the most.. U and ur husband ought to do this.. its part of ur duty..
BEFRIEND her.. Parents are the first teachers.. Let her feel free with u .. Then things will go in a way u wish them to be..
And for dry skin, go for any baby moisturising lotion.. of johnson & johnson's or, Nivea's.. Give her milk, essential oils(in food) in good quantities daily..Consult a peadiatrician.
2007-02-28 05:47:51 · answer #2 · answered by Poornima G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your pushing her to much, shes 3 1/2 years old, she does not need to go and concentrate on her studies, shes young, let her enjoy life, school things come later. Praise her always, never tell a child she did not do good at dance. Stop looking for bad things that she does, and look for the good things. If you constantly give your attention on the bad things, she will continue to do bad things to seek your attention. If I said your a bad mother, does that make you feel bad? Probably, so imagine how she feels when have negative comments about her. Don't rush things, shes young, enjoy her, and did I mention stop pushing her, stop forcing her to grow up so fast.
2007-02-28 08:25:08 · answer #3 · answered by Proud Mother 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
praise her and see the difference.1stly u r not spending enough time with her .this is the time to bond with ur child.plsing other children will only give her an inferiority complex.every child is unique.ur child is trying the best to impress u but u r expecting too much from a 3yr old.
for the dry skin any body lotion will do.i use vaseline lotion(with aloe vera ing.)
2007-03-01 12:17:20 · answer #4 · answered by mots 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As your daughter is very young you should be very careful. You should praise her for every little good and big things she does. Don't force her to study. Try to make her study interesting by involving yourself in it. Dance with her in your favourite tune. Don't scold her if she has something bad. Try to make her understand her mistakes. Try to spend as much as time you can with her.
For her dry skin use Vaseline body lotion
2007-02-28 05:33:26 · answer #5 · answered by ASHUTOSH S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find time to care your child. Give first preference to your family not to your job. Bring your child to a good skin specialist.
Never put bad memories in her mind.
Give your maximum and enormous love towards her.
I am sure she will be alright
2007-02-28 05:55:24 · answer #6 · answered by ninnu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Madam, your daughter is so small and u have to take carefully. your first problem is for both are employees so u send her for Baby Care and tell the caretaker to take tution also. and the other problem is ur baby skin some children have like this so u see her for skin specialist.
2007-02-28 05:47:43 · answer #7 · answered by sunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Solutions
i- Good nursing home
ii-Skin specialist
2007-02-28 05:33:49 · answer #8 · answered by ZAK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to understand the problem of the Baby properly to solve her problem. Then think how can it be solved.
2007-02-28 05:34:39 · answer #9 · answered by khuranapvp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋