here it is i liked this guy and i found out he was interested to so i asked him out and he said no twice he would try to get my attention but i was shy and when i would come around it was too late. i broke the ice once with him and he started saying hi to me. but then i would start to get shy around him and now we are back to square one. i know he is bothered by the fact that i dont say anything to him. i want to be blunt and say something like i no u dont like me and its ok but i dont want to freak him out or should i just forget about that and say hi oh im so confused what 2 do.
2007-02-27 21:17:41 · 8 answers · asked by vsqzg 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just act like nothing happened and go about ur day. smile n b polite when u see him just like u would with any other person. if anything he will b impressed by ur maturity and self confidence, and if i guess correctly, that will b attractive to him. if u decide to give him one more try, then u will have the chance, and if u decide to move on to greener pastures, just tell him u think u 2 are better suited as friends. it sounds like u r not really even that close as to be called friends, so, no loss to u.
2007-02-27 21:27:57 · answer #1 · answered by carmen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know that he was ever attracted to you, I think you should just leave him alone. Otherwise you become the girl that "is stalking me dude, how can I get rid of her?" Nobody should be thought of like that, you don't have to be rude, like a woman scorned, but stay your distance. It is awkward to him also, and you trying to say something to him only shows you want the last word in on him, which is a sign of control issues.
Let it go and move on!
2007-02-28 05:22:38 · answer #2 · answered by Lt. Dan reborn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my dear this guy is obviously aware of yo feelings,belive me such happened to me too...wat i did was...i started ignoring him.trying 2 come out as though i had come over d feeling.in tym he approached me complaining that i wasnt paying much attention 2 him..he then proposed.most guys dont like it when a girl approaches them..come on girl!show d dude dat u aint doing it out of desperation.
2007-02-28 05:46:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you have ask this guy out twice and he say no i would not ask him out no more let him ask you out and when he dose dint be shy and yes you should forget about that and say hi and go on
2007-02-28 05:29:05 · answer #4 · answered by EVA J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretend like it doesn't matter, that you've moved on, until you have (moved on) or he comes around.
2007-02-28 05:25:38 · answer #5 · answered by libbey d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie forget him hes not worth ur time seriously!
2007-02-28 05:21:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont give him attention anymore,he will come after u.
2007-02-28 05:21:39 · answer #7 · answered by sherry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know about your country, but in mine, guys are not such stuck up.
2007-02-28 05:21:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋