my boyf is in the army and everyone says they cant be trusted he could be doing anything! this makes me have doubts about him help
2007-02-27 20:10:27 · 9 answers · asked by gemma b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HELLLLLL NO !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-27 20:13:07 · answer #1 · answered by lady26 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well he could be doing anything-but then so could a 'civvie' boyfriend, right?
Swearing allegiance doesn't automatically make them prone to promiscuity any more than it makes them faithful when they never have been before.
Truth is that all men(and women) have the capacity to cheat- and long distances always put pressure on a relationship regardless of how long you have or haven't been together(and invariably at some point a forces relationship becomes long distance).
I've seen many a bloke come home to find his missus(to whom he's been faithful) has been putting it about a bit in his absence-it goes both ways and young soldiers are just that-young!
If it's meant to be it will work and if it isn't it won't, same as any other relationship.
2007-02-27 21:16:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey my dad was in the army for 20 odd years. He married my mum at age 24, had me at age 25, and my bro at 29. They were married for nearing on 20 years. He was faithful. They split after her had left the army. (2 years after he was made redundant.)
Yet I had a different experience. I saw someone very briefly who was in the army. Said he really liked me and that he wanted to settle down,..... He used me.
Altough, this was after I split from my ex husband, and I had said that I would like to have had a 'fit' man with tattoos, and I got that, even if it were brief and having been used. Ohh well thats life, lol.
Very happy in a stable relationship right now. He's fit. Contemplating a tattoo. So I could have that too, lol. Funny how life works out hey?
2007-02-27 20:26:48 · answer #3 · answered by Need_to_know 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to date a guy in the army, and I never had reason to doubt him. Trust your heart if you think you love him.
2007-02-27 20:33:12 · answer #4 · answered by samspinkturtles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man doesn't have to be in the Army to cheat..
Men in the Army are no different then civilian men in that regard.
2007-02-27 20:15:22 · answer #5 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a guy is going to cheat he is going to cheat, whether he is in the army or not
only you can decide whether you can trust your bf or not, you shouldn't always listen to other people, trust yourself to make the right decision, whats best for you
xxx
2007-02-27 20:33:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooo i hope they dont my bf wants to join the army...i wouldn't worry thou u shud trust ur bf....if mine cheated **** him his loss i get the house , tv , car etc :D lol
2007-02-27 20:28:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that make no sense. whatever everyone says.. being in army or not doesnt change ****.
2007-02-27 20:13:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GROW UP! ITS MEN! IT DOESNT MATTER N THE ARMY OR AT THE MALL!
2007-02-27 20:14:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋