Ok, there is this friend of mine that i have really fallin for...for those of you who don't know i mean...love...but it sucks! because he does not belive in it and hates it when girls for in love with him...in other terms he backs off from them due to failed relationships in the past. He knows i like him...and he feels the same too (not in a friendly way) but what he doesn't know is that i really...really like him more ... but i can't tell him that and it's killing me inside. So i don't know what to do now.
2007-02-27 19:19:03 · 12 answers · asked by Lihanna 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You say you both like each more than just friends so why dont you suggest going out on a proper date. Dont smother him go and have fun together let the relationship take its own path. And if you do start dating dont tell him after two or three dates that you love him or he may find it is too much to soon. Maybe in a months time ask him how he thinks the relationship is going and would he like things to progress. You never know he may feel the same as you you but he might be hiding his feelings because he has been hurt in the past. Just take it slowly.
2007-02-27 19:31:06 · answer #1 · answered by Ding Dong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick with him and give it time. He's just still feeling the effects of his past failed relationships as you said and he just doesn't want to get hurt again. If u just give him some time and be patient he'll feel comfortable being in a relationship again and it'll show him that u really like him.
2007-02-28 03:45:17 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. RNC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is tricky one. Maybe you should try and explain how u feel and promise him you'll love him and it won't be just another failed relationship. I'm not too good with this kinda stuff myself, but if it were me that's what I'd most likely do.
2007-02-28 03:23:27 · answer #3 · answered by Abz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not tell him you love him. There is nothing more sure to get a guy running for the trees then a girl he hasn't even dated telling him she loves him.
Let him know you're very interested and if he can't deal with it then it's his loss.
2007-02-28 03:26:17 · answer #4 · answered by thelivinglegend 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok latisha ... look sweety
i know how you feel.
there is a way to fix this problem!!
you dont have to tell him that you like him!!
you can do things, ( Hold his hand, look at him in his eyes when you talking to him ) and by this way he will noticed that you really like him!!
i hope it works for you!!
2007-02-28 03:35:56 · answer #5 · answered by Amir 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have to be honest with him
tell him you think it could be something really special, but that if he doesn't feel the same way that you still want to remain friends, you don't want it to change anything but you just had to let him know how you felt
good luck xxx
2007-02-28 04:41:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to build up the relationship more so he begins to like u as much as u like him. then when the time is right tell him...telling him now might ruin ur friendship.
2007-02-28 03:28:44 · answer #7 · answered by J_IC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get naked for him and he will show his true feeling s and colours and you may even get lucky, good luck.
2007-02-28 03:24:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest, he may feel the same way good luck
2007-02-28 03:22:30 · answer #9 · answered by nicolefrenzy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him?
2007-02-28 03:25:09 · answer #10 · answered by rose_merrick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋