Me N my girlfriend went out for 8 years already, N last month i find out she slept with some guy twice, N the second night they were all drunk N slept together, but she told me they didn't have sex N they just make out, i dont know should i believe her or not? also we have a 6 years old kid together rite now, N i can't not stand it ,, wut should i do? she told me the reason why she do that cuz i been cheating on her before N that's why u do that to me, but i didn't sleep with any gurl tho.. can yall tell me wut to do? Thank you
2007-02-27 19:17:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and she kept it from you for 3 years :O oh man id feel so betrayed!!!! i always told my husband if i cheated. i foudn out he lied to me and held my cheating over my head but he was cheating more than me. thats too much betrayal id wanna dump her
2007-02-27 19:20:41 · answer #1 · answered by lady26 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you one of those molesters or something did you sleep with someone like a little boy or some defenseless gay man? Any way what it is a failure to communicate and life takes a lustful turn a "bam" you find yourself in a victim reck. Look out cause Karma is coming to take you to the funny farm have a good trip! and watch out for dogmas they bite.
2007-02-28 03:26:27 · answer #2 · answered by matthew m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just forget about it, it was 3 years ago and plus you have a kid and been going out for 8 years thats a good relationship keep it up
2007-02-28 03:22:01 · answer #3 · answered by egg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
two words. leave her. What you should be worried abot is how many otther times she cheated that you dont know. By saying we just made out and that it was in revenge means she admitted she did cheat on you. you are better off by yoursle and your kid. Let her go out there and ride as many d*cks as she pleases
2007-02-28 06:05:04 · answer #4 · answered by Stargate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both of u should go to a therapist and work things out...if u really love her and u know u can trust her then stay 2gether. besides if u 2 seperate it will make your kids life horrible because no child ever wants their parents divorced.
2007-02-28 03:23:37 · answer #5 · answered by J_IC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some counselling to work through all this stuff it appears it is the only thing that is going to help. God Bless and Good Luck.
2007-02-28 03:28:14 · answer #6 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you still love her, give her another chance. my man cheated on me and we worked it out. if for no other reason do it for your child. but only if you really still love her. but if she does it a second time I'd say leave her. once can be looked at as a mistake but twice means they really don't care about your feelings and if she doesn't care about your feelings how can she care about you?
2007-02-28 03:26:08 · answer #7 · answered by heather l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating to each other not good for your relationship. but living
together fashion for your countries. If you truly love her and she knew that and after that she cheated you it was dam ****. first think about your child and then make a decision.
2007-02-28 03:36:19 · answer #8 · answered by thipathni a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sure these fine folkks can tell you how to run your life, pretty sure they told your g/f to go ahead, they do it all the time in here, they say sure, he cheated on you, go ahead and show him how it feels, but be careful, no tellin what they are gonna tell you, pretty sure there will be plenty dump her stuff.
2007-02-28 03:22:28 · answer #9 · answered by TEXASMALE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUDE!!!!
thats long ago!!!
just forget it!!
2007-02-28 03:39:22 · answer #10 · answered by Amir 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋