me and my partner have been having avery good sex live, and we get along great when were together,which is 2or3 times a week.but it only for sex.his never me to go out.and the sex is when he in need.when i call him and mention that maybe i am in need. he seam to alway say no not tonight and i dont think thats right. i really dont think this is very heathy for me,dont get me wrong,i like sex,but i am looking for someone to not only sex,but someone i can spend time with and enjoy life with.
2007-02-27 19:00:32 · 15 answers · asked by ladyhorse12001 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
being appreciated,, or loved, makes everyone
feel better,,
spending time with someone must be enjoyable
or its no fun,,,,,,,,
so go have fun with someone who will appreciate you,, and life will be so much better
not to mention how much better that makes sex
good luck, let me know if i can help.
2007-02-27 19:09:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Above all else, guard your heart it is the well-spring of life." Proverbs 4:23
Unfortunately, he doesn't need anything else from you. He is not the one you will be spending time with unless he wants YOU. Have you always been available for him?? If so, that's a problem. I don't care how us women look at it, the heart is connected to THAT thing and we are the ones who end up getting hurt. You want him to care about YOU but that is not the case here. If you want more than SEX from him, walk away before you end up mentally drained. If SEX is all you want from him, go on and do your thang. Go on and be used up and feeling like nothing. One way or the other you will walk away being the loser. After you, he will find someone else. He's probably with someone else already.
Of course this "ship" is not healthy for you.
2007-02-28 03:18:10 · answer #2 · answered by whataday 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are worth more than that. You deserve someone that wants you for your heart as well as your body. You need to respect yourself more and stand up to this guy. He knows what he is doing, and he really doesn't look like he is going to change the situation. He is getting what he wants. Tell him that he's not getting it anymore and end the relationship. You deserve what you WANT -- someone you can spend time with and enjoy life with. You deserve that. Go out and find it and get rid of this guy that doesn't respect you.
2007-02-28 03:07:41 · answer #3 · answered by One Odd Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop giving it to him then you'll see what he was really in it for. I wouldn't have sex from the beginning if I wanted to actually date the person. You need to build a level of respect first if you want to have a long term relationship. Wait till the guy actually takes you out on dates and see how he treats you, then you can go on and be intimate.
2007-02-28 03:31:08 · answer #4 · answered by Queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to cut him loose quick, b/c he's just using you and doesn't care about you or respect you. You need to wait and find the right man that is going to treat you with the upmost respect and appreciation. Men don't respect women that just give it up like that. They want the girl they can't have. And besides you're too good for him anyway.
2007-02-28 03:06:00 · answer #5 · answered by bethany j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change ur number, or block his number, anything to avoid him, and move on. and look for a proper man.
If u have time to waste, u could do the naughty girl thing, and play him at his own game.
but this could be a considerable waste of ur time, when u can spend that on looking for someone else.
2007-02-28 03:09:53 · answer #6 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing is you don't want to feel used, the thing you can do is dumping that guy who is only interested in sex, not in you and meet new guys but going slow.
2007-02-28 03:04:19 · answer #7 · answered by C6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think this guy really loves or even cares for you! Come on, wake up girl! Better dump this guy and find someone that really love, care and always be there for you when you need him. Waste nomore time with this guy!
2007-02-28 03:09:05 · answer #8 · answered by KP 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it's not all about sex after all? make a stand and just say no. find someone to have a life with. peace
2007-02-28 03:04:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's selfish n only enjoy 4 himself.u must talk to him frankly that u deserved the right to enjoy equally whenever u want to.
2007-02-28 03:08:22 · answer #10 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋