I dated a girl for a while and we were in LOVE....I made some bad decisons and I blew her off and didn't listen to her....We broke up about two months ago, and we still talk to one another and one day it hit me like nothing I have ever felt before....I wanted her back and would do anything to get her back....I was stupid for not seeing what I had all along....and I tell her and show her I love her more than anything, but she has just started dating tool bag aka phillip and kind of likes him.....I want to know what can I do to win her heart back??
2007-02-27 18:49:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're craving to have her back, you probably only THINK you appreciate her now that she's gone... when in reality, your loneliness (or whatever missing piece you weren't ready to handle that suddenly became conscious) is really just making you needy right now.
Let her see where it goes with Phillip. Learn to be happy for her if she's happy with someone else. Become an independent, secure single person. Then if she breaks up with him and gravitates back to you... you'll be ready for a real relationship and you'll know it was for real.
2007-02-27 18:56:02 · answer #1 · answered by Buying is Voting 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. But you blew her off too. She probably see's you as a tool. No offense...but she wanted you and you blew her off.
Treat it like a "lesson learned". Be a man. Get over her. Stop listening to the little cry-baby inside you that is afraid to be alone.
You can get another girl. One that you really like and will not blow off. Move on. Everyone goes through this in their first few serious relationships.
2007-02-27 18:56:14 · answer #2 · answered by gabrielbowers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might be a little to late. but they say its never to late so you need to talk to her. if she cares for you like you think then she'll listen. be honest dont make things worse by lying. if she doesnt listen and she belonged to for real then be patient because there is nothing else you can do let time take its course. maybe next time you'll appreciate what you have,.
2007-02-27 19:11:50 · answer #3 · answered by gansito 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get down on your knees and beg...yeah that's about it unfornately. Wish there was something else, but honestly from what I've seen that seems to be the only thing that works...sometimes. Good luck! :)
2007-02-27 18:55:29 · answer #4 · answered by Devon M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your case same thing happen to me. we want them back to us cause we realized they are better than others. u know this is lesson to us if we love them don't let them go. now what u should do is u must know if still she loves u. and i know she never forget u. and must she know that you still love her for 3yrs. she is not with u r thinking about her. wish u good luck.
2007-02-27 19:06:31 · answer #5 · answered by kate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her back, be modest tell her how stupid and jerk etc...compliment her with good speech and for you all the bad stuff, girls likes it, when you admit you are bad. Then serenade her if you can, buy bunch of flowers etc...goodluck!
2007-02-27 18:59:43 · answer #6 · answered by sure_whatever_29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like it didn't take her long to get back on a track.
2007-02-27 18:54:17 · answer #7 · answered by OC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we can preach and preach but sometimes, if it's meant to be, you'll get back together. Give it time. Talk to her and try to be her friend again. Maybe it'll happen.
2007-02-27 18:53:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her how u feel N how much u love her.. besides that u can't do much bro.. GOOD LUCK
2007-02-27 18:54:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe this all happened for a reason... tell her how you feel and let it go with the flow... if she loves you back she will go back to you...
2007-02-27 19:01:16 · answer #10 · answered by tieu30thu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋