i love a person who is 27 years he tooo love me but he is chistian and i am hindu?

Question

we both love each other soooo much and we want to marry but my parents are very strict and they wont allow me to marry a christian.please tell me what should i do.and i want to know whether i will succeed in my love or not pls reply

Answer 1

TAKE THE HELP OF LAW OR YOUR FRIENDS TO GET YOU MARRIAGE.

Answer 2

It's not the religion that would come between you guys. It never did. It's the sick mentallity of people thinking that there are different sets of human races and each persaon belonging to a set must pertain to itrs own set.

Nobody is muslim or a hindu or a christian because he/she is born in that family. He/she is hindu or a muslim or a christian because he/she is developed in that culture. RELIGION IS AN INDUCTION of FEW ETHICS INTO US. IT'S NOT OUR IDENTITY. It's something we need to follow to lead a stable, healthy and hygenic life, not to create discrimination. If you study the rituals of your religion carefully you will understand that it is technically oriented more towards mental and physical fitness of a person and not towards other religions.

I've seen a few inter-racial marraiges nad seen them get along well.... You two have already accepted each other inspite of the religious differences because there's a human being inside you who is out of the religious bounds. Come on set yourself free. What has religion got to do with love.

You have a lucky opportunity to blend tweo different great cultures. Go ahead.

If your love is really true, and you are wise enough, you must have the ability to convince your parents that your choice is the best. The main reason why parents don't agree to their childrens decision about mariages is because they don't think these kids are wise enough to look beyond the scope. Win their trust. Make them feel that you are a good decision maker. They would definitely give in to your feelings.

:-)

Answer 3

There are 3 ways to go about this.

1. Convert yourself and your parents into Christians and all might be well.
2. Convert your boyfriend into a Hindu and all might be well.
3.Convince your parents that you won't be influenced by his faith.

However, do you really know your potential life partner's faith well enough? Can you be certain that your faith is unshakeable?

Both your husband and your parents and you need to know, learn about and understand each other's faith first before making the next move. You will not be able to compromise on matters regarding faith. You can only accept or reject. There isn't really such a thing as "adopting" an extra God when it comes to Christianity or Hinduism. You have to make the choice. It's a leap of faith. All the best. Ask your boyfriend to help you.

Answer 4

Ok
First of All you be clear about the following ....

Is he independant .....? Coz if he is he can be strong in taking a Step for you. (50% Weightage)

How is his family accepting you ..... if they are fine with you and have accepted you as a daughter in law and are happy about it.( 40% wieghtage)

Lastlly Can u leave your family for him .. which in any case u will leave even after an arranged marriage ....
Frankly if the boy is good and suportive and mature in his behavior ... and he makes u feel protected and taken care of then he is the man .

Also how much respect he has for others will make him a true man for you .
He should respect your family even if they disagree for ur marriage. Thats what a man is all about . Trust me if the guy is worth it then ,,,, everything will settle down in six months .... only if somebody is a complete psyco and not come to terms with your happiness ..which may be ur dad or ur mom or ur bro ...or all of them .... But your guys sholud not disrespect them .........
I also would say hope u r not too young ... say done with your education and professional course .... please be sure of your own solid standing .... coz if this guys ditches u aftre marraige then ... you wont even like to go back two your family if they have not settled with it ...and also they will comment life long "hamne to kaha thaaa" So you yoursefl should have a solid standing that in any eventuality you can do a job or something ..... coz a girl goes to a boys house ... she leaves everything behind ... so its for you to decide .how much serious you are for your future ............. !! Think about it .. ask him this questions that u dont want ..but in any case if you will not be able to adjust with his family will he choose between u or them .... coz you yoursefl have made a sacrifce by leaving your parents ...... his answer will make your mind much more clear ....... and he sholud be good and smart enough to impress all your cousins and relatives wheneever they meet him at some common function ... coz he has to be the best for you and pass every scrutiny ............ coz life gives us just one chance to be the best and we gottta try to bethe best ... most gracefull ....even in defeat .... ...

Answer 5

Love does not mean marriage. Marriage depends upon many factors i..e what is the education, job, salary, family background etc.of the boy. Are the parents of the boy agreed for the marriage? Which state you belong? What is your caste? What is the status of your family. Have you completed your education. What is the goal of your life. Are you employed? If both of you are highly qualified and well settled , then you can think of th marriage otherwise do not marry. Now you are talking about different religions, about parents etc. You should have thought about it before love. Can you adjust in other culture. 90% love marriages are not successful. Think hundered time before taking the decision of marriage.

Answer 6

The truth is that you have the odds against you. It is hard to have two religions in a marriage because it will cause disagrements. How will you raise the children? What about religious holidays? Christmas and Easter are important to him as a Christian, will you celebrate with him and his family? What about times of the year important to you, will he be with you and celebrate with your family? Will you be okay with his going to church on sunday mornings? You can marry whomever you wish. If you choose to marry him, you will cause problems with your family. You need to decide if that is worth it. You need to sit down with him first and have a serious talk about the issues that may arise in the marriage. After you come to an agreement, you need to go talk to your parents and explain what you wish to do. Do the same with his parents as well.

You can succeed, but i cannot tell you that it will be easy. This will be VERY hard. the question to you is -- is this worth the hardship?

Amanda

Answer 7

go ahead and do the right thing. I mean, marry the guy. Try to explain your parents that following a different faith is a normal thing and it does not make anybody inferior. If they claim themself Hindu, they are expected to know and follow the basic tenets of Hinduism - There is same spark in a scholarly Pandit, in a cow, in an elephant, in a dog and even in a dog eater.

Answer 8

Try to talk your parents about that....My parents are also strict about religions!!! But my parents said if I have a hindu bf, this boy must have a good job and he has to come with me at church every sunday!!

So you have to tell them good points of your BF!! Why are they strict, because our people (indian) always talked badly about us and parents don't want to hear that their girl is like that....u know what I mean!!!And they(parents) can't reply if there are no arguments!! You have to give them those argument !!

I know we don't live for others, but it's like that!! Parents only want the happiness of their children...!!

If your Love is True, Nobody can stopped it including your parents but you have to face it!!!!!

Have a nice day,

Answer 9

hello
i want to convey that life is very short. nobody knows what will happen tomorrow and also nobody is going to live for infinite time.still people go on fighting in making their point right.
so take time and try to convince your parents.
Ultimate point is u r going to live the life and u should be satisfied from inner depth of heart.
Religeon, cast e all these r developed by the man not by GOD ,only to divide and rule.
so nowhere u should feel odd by religeon.
Dnt leave on luck.U should know that luck starts only when human first gives effort.
So carry on u will definitely suceed.
All the best.

Answer 10

You must consider both sides.
Whenyou marry in another religion, both of you must be mature enough to cope with it .
Also, love is a beautiful feeling & it does matter.
Both of you must talk realistically & openly with each other about your love as well as how you'll feel about being a marriage with different religious backgrounds/ beliefs/ families.
Also, don't forget to ask god .
Do what you feel is right but with open eyes.

Answer 11

I am also faceing this problem but write know I am decided we will never mary without our parent's permission but we can't mary with any other person. After some time they will except your relation because nobody save their daughter after 29-30. If you able to wait I am suggesting this suggestion