I'm 20 years old, junior in college, VERY shy, and have very few friends, none of them being close friends. I've actually been on one date, but the girl went from having the hots for me to getting pregnant by another guy in about 3 weeks. Whatever though, I'm completely over that. However, I have really liked quite a few girls over the years, and I've always been too shy and disappointed myself. I actually got very depressed last semester over this one girl that I liked, but never even had the nuts to ask her if she had a boyfriend. Ever since I went on my first date in december, I've felt pretty good, mostly because I was not concentrating on girls as much. Instinctively, I want a girl to be with and what not, but there's this part of me that doesn't want to be disappointed like I have been so many times. I just don't know how to shut that voice up and get out there. Any suggestions?
2007-02-27 18:33:09 · 2 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
earn self confidence
2007-02-27 18:40:18 · answer #1 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow a pair of nuts and learn to love rejection. It makes you stronger start asking a lot of girls out and when they say no prentend that that has never happened before and give them a look that makes them feel stupid. Also when going out with chicks treat them like crap. Never give them what they want only on your terms. Trust me you will have to beat them of with a stick.
2007-02-28 02:38:58 · answer #2 · answered by flydives 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋