i think he's a player and have decided recently that i will take leave from him for good. he's been attentive towards me, he takes me out, he writes to me daily, but he's still with his gf. it's been quite a while and i just wonder if he will ever miss me when i am gone? or, will he just find a replacement?
2007-02-27 18:16:06 · 17 answers · asked by counterculturalist 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he has another girlfriend & is still with you, you must consider moving away from him. Even if you love him, remember if you stay in a relation where you lose your self respect, self worth like this, you are ruining yourself . you wont be able to heal easy. BE realistic.
If you feel its right, tell him gently that maybe you are developing feelings for him & since hes in a relation, you dont want to be caught in a complicated situation, so you would like to leave.
If you are meant to be together, you will- but believe me this is not the way. Show yourself some respect. Healthy & satisfying relations develop only when you respect yourself. Dont degrade yourself like this.
2007-02-27 18:31:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're wondering if he will miss you it probably means that you secretly want to leave him to get his attention... If he's not leaving his girlfriend now, chances are that won't change at all once you leave! He might miss you, but you really shouldn't care or be thinking about that. If you really want to leave it's definitely for your own good in this case, but it will only work if you can actually forget about him and if it doesn't matter if he misses you or not... If he DOES end up leaving his girlfriend and chasing after you that might be nice, but it almost certainly won't happen if he can tell you're only leaving for the purpose of making him miss you...
2007-02-27 18:20:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ew, this is ugly. The ugly part is that you said, "He's still with his girlfriend." Hello! I'm going to be realistic with you, if you knew he had a girlfriend, and you continue to write him, go out with him, etc., he's going to continue to do what he wants to do with you until YOU get tired of it! When you DO get tired of it, he's going to move on to the next girl (like he doesn't already have a few already, if he has you and a girlfriend), he'll get over you in a heartbeat. Actually, he's probably already over you and it's not even over yet. Get some self respect and leave this loser alone! I'm not saying this to be judgemental, I'm speaking from experience. It's going to hurt YOU when it's over, not HIM. The best of luck to you sweetie!
2007-02-27 18:24:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he'll miss you...but you will still get replaced. the next guy will do the exact same thing...take you eat...have sex...take you to a movie...have sex...go to a barbq....have sex...celebrate your bday...have sex... Don't break up with him because he has a girlfriend....that does not make sense. Just go get another boyfriend and have a great time doing the things you want. If you spend the same amount of time having fun as you do thinking about what he thinks, you'll probably be alot happier. Good luck!!
~moralityisrelative1~
2007-02-27 18:23:55 · answer #4 · answered by moralityisrelative1 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He HAS a girlfriend and you're worried about him missing you?? Girl, kick this man to the curb and get out and find you someone who knows how to treat a lady!! I wouldn't waste my time or energy worrying about if he'll miss me!
Good luck in your search for a real man!!
2007-02-27 18:24:59 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will most likely move on with someone else. Men who cheat don't feel anything for the person they cheat with normally, they just use them as an object to do what they want with. You shouldn't allow him to treat you like a piece of meat, you could most likely do a lot better for yourself than that unless thats what you want.
-NmD!
2007-02-27 18:21:13 · answer #6 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say Girlfriend, your being played by a playa!! He just wants his cake and eat it to. He cant have it both ways sorry to say. Please stop being used, and call it off all together!!!! He doesn't sound like he's leaving his girlfriend anytime soon. Stop being so nieve. Get on with ur life, theres plenty of other fish in the sea....GOOD-LUCK!!! DO NOT HANG ONTO THAT JERK!!! HE'S JUST USING U!!!!
2007-02-27 18:25:51 · answer #7 · answered by BRENDA B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he will probably find a replacement but if he really does like u then he will com 2 u wen u leave, break up wit his girl and get wit u. but if he is doin this wit u then he will probably do it while he is wit u, so jus drop him all 2gether
2007-02-27 18:20:13 · answer #8 · answered by playatm25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he has a gf, then he is a player. I dont think he'll miss u. sorry. good luck
2007-02-27 18:19:20 · answer #9 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your probably better off without him, you dont need a man to make yourself happy either. Good luck.
2007-02-27 18:21:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋