i had a really bad day...please help?

Question

i have had the worst day in a while.....my parents are mad at me for something i got in trouble for a while ago, my mom is mad at me for me 'bad' grades that aren't bad (6 B's and 2 A's in all honors classes at a private school), this girl i trusted told someone that i like this guy that i dont like him and it is turning into drama, it is raining and i am really cold and can't get warm no matter what i do, i feel like i might be getting sick, my mom told me yesterday that i had to be out of the bathroom this morning by 6:45 and she woke me up at 6:42 (she gave me a tiny bit extra time but not much), i feel like i am trying and trying to make everything go smoothly, but nothing seems to be working...im 14 and i cant drive anywhere does anyone know how i might cheer myself up or be cheered up?

Answer 1

Thats pretty harsh of your parents. But thats something I've noticed with people that go to private schools, their parents are usually a lot more "up tight" for lack of better words. You need to sit down with your mother and let her know how you feel, because if you don't, she'll never know and things will likely get worse. Your mother might have been having a bad week, just give her some time. As far as you feeling like maybe nothing is going right, you need to talk to someone...friends, other family, a school counselor, anyone, just don't repress your feelings. you sound like a good person who knows what they're doing, just hang in there and I'm sure you will be alright...wow with the all honors classes, nice...and taking a hot shower is a pretty good way to warm up by the way.

Answer 2

you are having a rough time being that this is the second time you asked that. That's okay, though. First off, you are 14. You are still very young, and you are letting little things get to you way too much. Get a cheap alarm clock and wake up earlier so that you can get ready on time. If you think you did the best that you can with your classes, then remember that is what matters. Go back through your study habits and ask yourself if you believe you could improve in any way. Did you miss any homework assignments? If you did, then maybe you could be tbetter at that. If you didn't study as much for a test, then maybe you could study a little each day by reviewing your notes from class. Find ways that YOU can improve. I had a girl tell a guy that I liked him when I was your age as well. And, yes, just like you, it turned into stupid drama. Realize this, it isn't the end of the world. If you don't like the guy, and he happens to ask you about it, then be honest and tell him that. Tell him straight that the girl betrayed you and you don't want a part in the drama. In the meantime, use this as a lesson. When you hear another rumor about someone at school, think twice before you believe it. Many of them aren't true and they can be very painful to the person involved. As far as the not getting warm thing, what about a warm bath? Take a bath or a hot shower and relax. Realize that you are young and you've got a full life ahead of you. You seem so stressed out. Be sure to take some time for YOU each day. Find a book that YOU want to read. Write in a journal to get your feelings out. Go to a goofy game site online and play a little bit. Do something for YOU. Take a deep breath. Also, this may seem like a horrible day, but it will not be the worst in your life. Be thankful for the good things and focus on the good stuff. I'm sure you have good stuff. Not everything can be bad in your life. ;-) Hey, yahoo answers is good! lol

Amanda

Answer 3

1. The grades aren't bad at all. Your parents are just being ridiculous. They'll get over it.

2. The girl you trusted is obviously someone you can't trust anymore... just learn from it and move on. Ignore the drama or be honest and say you don't like him in that way, but they were misinformed.

3. You're probably just getting a cold or something. You should go to bed and get some rest.

You shouldn't be driving anywhere right now anyways. You have school in the morning. Just get some sleep.

Answer 4

first u stay n da bathroom even if ya mom say come out, jus say ur in da toilet. ya grade r good, but if u dropped from all A's then she got a rite to b mad but if u not on punishment or anything dont worry about it, she'll get over it. da girl who told is not really ur friend if u want da guy 2 no how u feel bout him ur goin 2 have to tell him personally. and ur goin2 have to get over the fact that it is raining. but if u want 2 b cheered up u gotta turn on my dog spongebob squarepants he got the answer to everything, or if all else fails just drop everything, try not 2 care bout it.

Answer 5

I hope u feel better tommorow. but just read this joke and I hope u get a chuckle. good luck. and by the way your grades arent bad at all. dont worry about it. one of my friends failed 3 classes throught one symester. u have alot in life u still have to accomplish be confident and use your big brain of yours and you'll be ok

A man has spent many days crossing the desert without water. His camel dies of thirst. He's crawling through the sands, certain that he has breathed his last breath, when all of a sudden he sees an object sticking out of the sand several yards ahead of him.

He crawls to the object, pulls it out of the sand, and discovers what looks to be an old briefcase. He opens it and out pops a genie...

But this is no ordinary genie. He is wearing an IRS ID badge and a dull gray suit.

There's a calculator in his pocket. He has a pencil tucked behind one ear.

"Well kid," says the genie. "You know how it works. You have three wishes."

"I'm not falling for this." says the man. "I'm not going to trust an IRS agent."

"What do you have to lose? You've got no transportation and it looks like you're a goner anyway!"

The man thinks about this for a minute and decides that the genie is right.

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***POOF*** The man finds himself in the most beautiful oasis he has ever seen. And he is surrounded with jugs of wine and platters of delicacies.

"Okay kid, what's your second wish?"

"My second wish is that I were rich beyond my wildest dreams."

***POOF*** The man finds himself surrounded by treasure chests filled with rare gold coins and precious gems.

"Okay kid, you have just one more wish. Better make it a good one!"

After thinking for a few minutes, the man says: "I wish that no matter where I go, beautiful women will want and need me."

***POOF*** He is turned into a tampon.

The moral of the story?

If the IRS offers you anything, there's going to be a string attached.

Answer 6

In this life you will have some bad and some good days. So cheer up with social gathering of friends and or try doing things with mom that can be rewarding.

Answer 7

okay why did she get mad at u u have good grades but why r your parents r so mad at u u didn't do anything wrong so if i were u i would go to my parents room and say what did i do to u i haven't done anything to u and i want to know why u r mad at me because of my grades or what i do in that school i just do my work at school so there is no reason just to get mad at me if there is u can be veruy happy about your grades.

Answer 8

It gets better when you're older.
BTW tell the guy you don't like, that the girl who told him, really does. She is transferring her emotions.

Answer 9

If I told you this is the easiest part of your life, would you hate me? good luck!!!


~moralityisrelative1~

Answer 10

things always look better in the morning.