after we get to know each other pretty well. however, another guy that i know from campus a few years ago, proposed to me last week and i turned him down, because he is not my type. my b/f asked me why i turned him down, and i said that i liked you (my b/f) better and that im happier with you.
i thought he would be happy hearing that, but instead he told me that i must be sure about what im doing because he doesnt want me regretting marrying him one day instead of this one, and that i must think carefully about my decision. and then he said that he loves me and that he (my b/f) is the better choice but that i must make the right choice. he also said that i seem to have high expectations of him and that even though he expects high standards from me, i must think long and hard about my choices because "that guy that proposed to you may not be around tomorrow". thats what he said.
is he just being logical and practical or am i expecting the wrong things? what do i do?
2007-02-27 17:59:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think your bf is trying to tell u that he loves u too much to see u hurt later. but i think he got this from like a movie or something.... rationaly i would not push u away
2007-02-27 18:05:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he was just testing your reaction. Cause he dun wan you to regret later on for rejecting the guy. Sometimes when ppl are in love, they tend to test each other thoughts. Even thou he did not show out his feelings, but deep within himself, he know that you love him a lot.
Just let the things cool down, cause it's not an argument you are looking for. Since you know that your bf dun like you to speak out such things, then keep quiet next time, if u do have another kind of such proposal.
2007-02-27 18:15:17 · answer #2 · answered by stormymy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is trying way to fast, three months isn't enough time to know him that well in my mind. Take your time if he is still around five years from now and your both pleased with the relationship then talk about it then. I have been in a 4 year and 5 year relationship that failed the test of time. My last was 1 year and when its right you will just know it, but he is jumping the gun and seems needy in it.
-NmD!
2007-02-27 18:10:26 · answer #3 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lucky you! My bf and i are in relationship for four years now and he didn't propose yet I wish he would...
2007-02-27 19:13:27 · answer #4 · answered by Arianne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋