ok a couple weeks ago...i gave this girl in my class a really nice v-day home made...although we havnt spoken much...i wanted to surprise her....anyways ...she doesn do much at all...i mean usually when u recieve somethin like this from a guy...u will at least say "hey..thnx for u r card it was really thoughtfull.." the next day but what do i get ???NOTHIN ....anyways what can i do to find out if she is really fricken shy but likes me...or just not interested?
but sometimes she takes notice of me...like when we pass each other...we make eye contact which is something we didnt do before...i know its not much but...its something lol .....and also...i asked her friends if she said anything about me ....nothing
its not like..im really ugly or anything
2007-02-27 17:08:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry, but I have to say this:
Look in the mirror.
***** slap yourself ten times and say "I will not do something so wussy ever again."
You CAN'T do anything romantic to ATTRACT a girl. ROMANCE is used to INCREASE attraction she already HAS for you, especially if you're in a relationship.
What is with the expecting something in return? Believe it or not, girls PICK UP ON THIS within 10 seconds of talking to you. Maybe even withing SEEING you. Don't believe me, ask 10 attractive girls whether it is true or not. (That is actually a great opener for an approach, but it won't help you unless you fix your inner game)
Girls don't care about looks so much as much as how you make her FEEL. Seems like you make her feel weird because she KNOWS you're expecting something. But you know it is the GUY who makes the moves in the beginning.
No I'm not a chick or feminist. But what I say is true.
Franklin
2007-02-27 17:17:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot really know if she is interested without talking to her. Giving her a card was a nice gesture and should have at least brought some reaction from her. I think that it is one out of two things -either she is really not interested or extremely shy.
In my opinion, the best way to proceed is to try and get to know her better, try to be her friend. Getting to know her will make things much easier for you. Try not to be shy
2007-02-28 01:20:40 · answer #2 · answered by J_J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off...BE A MAN! If you want to know, why are you asking a bunch of people that you don't even know for advice. Ask her point blank if she would like to hang out, have some fun and if she enjoyed your card. Don't make it a big deal out of it and if you're rejected believe you me there is plenty of women to go around. Good luck!!
~moralityisrelative1~
2007-02-28 01:13:48 · answer #3 · answered by moralityisrelative1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that whether she likes you or not, she just does not know what to say or how to approach you. You might want to ask her if she got the thing you gave her. That will force her to have to talk to you and I think you will get her opinion of you then.
2007-02-28 01:12:35 · answer #4 · answered by snowangel_az 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes you, but she`s just playing hard to get. Or she doesn`t want to totally freak you out by an automatic response, but she does like you. Or she`s very mysterious and still likes you.
--Either way she likes you.
duhh..:)
2007-02-28 01:13:41 · answer #5 · answered by Brooklynn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this girl could be really shy i mean if i recieved a v day card from someone i would wait for them to approach me so my advice would be to wait till shes not with her friends then approach her and talk to her see if she liked it and go from there...
2007-02-28 01:12:05 · answer #6 · answered by Tequila 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awe that was really sweet of you. you really shouldnt ask her friends. you should just go up to her and ask her your self. you were brave enough to give her a card. i think if she likes you it would make her feel really special if you talked to her yourself. she is either really shy or totaly not worth your time.
2007-02-28 01:18:23 · answer #7 · answered by LAINA LOU 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yo bro this girl probably doesn't like you man.. Com on now man if you give a girl anything they would go crazy. loll, learn from experience , but yeah back to your story i serious doubt that she like you . She just doesn't want to be mean to you . :)
2007-02-28 01:13:42 · answer #8 · answered by Bounchuae M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude never go to the friends, just go straight to the source. if you like the girl at least hint it to her, well you've already done that, but just go to her and talk to her. get to know her better before you start jumping to conclusions. just talk to her and get her side, never ask her friends.
2007-02-28 01:12:10 · answer #9 · answered by Dory Ian 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to her and there will be no more mystery about how she feels, you will know, she probably shy or thinking something good about you, either way just talk to her
2007-02-28 01:11:10 · answer #10 · answered by Wendy C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋