i really like this guy a lot!
but we hven't known each other that long and he's gonna be gone for like a year.
everyone my family and my friends and yahoo answer users have all said take things slow and let things happen. if it was meant to be it'll happen. well how do i do that? all i want to do is talk to him and be with him...how do i control myself?
2007-02-27 16:47:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what they mean when they say take things slow and let things happen is. continue to be you. dont do anything to scare him away. boys are easy to scare away if they think that a girl is too into them, or if they dont feel the same way. the best way to get him is to continue to be his best friend, dont let ur feeling get in the way because things will change, im telling you. a guy likes a friend, so if you keep it on a level where you guys can talk about anything, go have fun, write to each other, and email and send pictures then, i bet u he is going to think about you when he is gone, and remeber you when he comes back. just sit back and watch how all of his other so called friends stop keeping in touch and forget about him while he is gone, he is going to think about that and when he comes back he is going to spend his time with the person who thought about him. which is u. so just think about what i said and continue to be a good friend, i promise it will pay off.
2007-02-27 17:38:46 · answer #1 · answered by misseshodges 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, talk to him and be with him. where is he going? how long have you known each other? a lot of times when you first meet someone you feel as if you are head over heels and you're very infactuated. let time go by and keep in contact with him and definitely take things slow. don't rush into anything too soon.
2007-02-28 00:51:34 · answer #2 · answered by butter_cream1981 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should look at this guy analytically. Before you jump into the unknown, step back and observe how he treats people around him. If you still like him, talk to him and most importantly, keep a cool head about all of this.
2007-02-28 02:11:40 · answer #3 · answered by Cynic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In other words, don't crowd him.
* Don't call, write and/or email him constantly. Do that once or twice a week instead of everyday. You can push a guy away if you're all on top of him. You don't want to appear desperate or needy/clingy.
If it's meant to be, he will contact you from time to time.
2007-02-28 00:53:21 · answer #4 · answered by brotherb95 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you old enough to jump into bed with him without being messed up for the year that he's away?
Understanding that would help a lot with answering.
2007-02-28 01:24:49 · answer #5 · answered by Curt Monash 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋