Five weeks into my spring semester, I have had brief conversations here and there with this really pretty and nice girl in my German class. I might be taking things out of proportion, but during our ten-minute break, she approached me and we talked for the duration. After class, she asked me to walk with her to her next class. Surprisingly, prior to departing our ways, she grabbed and hugged me. What should I do? I am really attracted to this female, but what should I do, not to blow or ruin my opportunity with her. Thanks for your help.
2007-02-27 16:43:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I forgot to mention and elaborate that today was the first time she approached me and we started talking. Normally, I would be the first person that initiates the conversation. Furthermore, it was also today that she asked me to walk with her. God, when I first saw her I thought she strongly resembles those telenova actresses. Light skin, dark eyes, dark hair. She seems very outgoing, whenever I ask about her weekend she goes hiking in the hills or tastes different foods from other countries.
2007-02-27 17:13:23 · update #1
Be light-hearted, relaxed, and most of all DO NOT DO THINGS THAT THE TYPICAL GUYS WOULD DO!
1. You seem to feel you need to take advantage of the situation. (When you think about it, you KNOW I'm right)
2. This "one-girl attitude" WILL hurt you later.
You wanna know what to do to turn it up? Think of two steps forward and one back as you hang out with her. Like if she hugs you and the says you are a great guy (two things... see?), then you say "Yeah... I love me too." This SEEMS arrogant, but it's funny AND implies that you know she likes you a LOT. This puts you in control and you will feel better and so will she for actually having a REAL man.
Enough of my rambling,
Franklin
2007-02-27 16:50:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Today!!! Don't wait call her now and tell her that she is the most beautiful women you have ever laid your eyes on and want to know if she would like to hang out. When a women comes out of her personal space and makes contact with you, you're beyond in the good. Be a man, don't worry about rejection, and you'll thank me when the fireworks start! Good luck!
~moralityisrelative1~
2007-02-28 00:52:15 · answer #2 · answered by moralityisrelative1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your in HS, ask her to the next dance or even better the next sporting event... Soemthing you guys would like... If your really not sure what she'll say... Then ask her out with a group of your friends then you wont be connected to her the entire nite incase it gets weird, but if she does get attracted to you... Then Bingo Bango!
2007-02-28 00:47:58 · answer #3 · answered by Coach White 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, they say that actions speak louder than words. However, her hugging may just be a friendly gesture. Why not wait for another "hugging" moment with her. Then right after, you can ask her what was the hug for.
2007-02-28 00:51:19 · answer #4 · answered by thatsraven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This actually happened to me before, there was this girl I really liked, but whenever I talked with her, she would always get REALLY REALLY close to me, and she would always bump into me when she walked by me, and once she even all-out hugged me! My advice is, roll with it for a while, see if she really does like you a lot, and if she does, ask her out.
2007-02-28 00:51:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play dumb and ask her help with German, or ask if she wants to study for a quiz/test with you. after spending time with her innocently see how it goes. if you still feel for her ask her out to dinner and/or drinks. personally from what you have said i think she enjoys your company and might actually have a thing for you. play it cool and confident and in no time i think you might be an item!
2007-02-28 00:48:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She obviously is showing affection towards you! Don't take it too fast, you might loose her. Just show the real side of you and hope she likes it, try not to be too shy or over welcoming! I hope this helps, good luck.
2007-02-28 00:49:45 · answer #7 · answered by Reggie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First find somthing else to wear that outfit looks rediculious and next act as natural as you are able and be yourself dont act on impulse. If all else fails Communicate to her on everything you are going thru and be confident no matter..What?
2007-02-28 00:48:26 · answer #8 · answered by matthew m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep asking her to events etc. Or ask her to have coffee with you!!! Just ask her something NOW!!!! Don't waste the chance...
2007-02-28 00:47:57 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa Kay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right after spring break
2007-02-28 00:45:55 · answer #10 · answered by John Becker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋