About a week ago, we both discussed our feelings for each other. She pretty much said she likes me, but isn't ready for a relationship. So a few days pass and she ignores me and treats me bad. I don't know why. So I asked her how she was doing and she got rude.
I said, Come on now. No need to get that way. Wat are you so mad about?
She says, You act like this is about you! I'm tired! Please leave me alone.
I said, I never acted like this to you.
She says, You are right now. I met someone really special too and I don't know what to do. I can't handle everything right now and I need you to understand how I feel. I need you as a friend.
Does she mean she met someone else, or was she talking about me?
2007-02-27 16:43:38 · 11 answers · asked by MHL 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She told you she wants u as a friend. Get it? So,be just her friend and find someone else to dote on. Sometimes it's better that way. Be her friend and learn about her...Her likes and her dilikes,etc. Then when she's crying on your shoulder,etc.. Tell her (if you really do like her ) You'll always be there for her. And mean it when you say it.....
2007-02-27 16:50:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wasn't talking about you. She sounds like she's confused and has some issues. Don't just sit around and be her friend if you are wanting something more. Don't be a doormat. If you've told her how you feel and she doesn't feel the same way, leave her be. She needs to figure out how she feels and what she wants. So move on and if she comes back around and you are willing to accept her fine.
2007-02-27 16:46:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to tell you this
However once a guy is tagged as a "nice guy" (noncontrolling, honest, sincere, monogamous etc) - the kind that might tell his "feelings" - it's usually over
Most chicks subconsciously seek out and get turned on by cheaters and hard cases - who ratchet up that (no doubt evolutionary based) "chemistry" they are addicted to like crack cocaine
Nice guys cannot offer the illusive promise of genetic immortality - thus chicks become bored with them
Run and don't look back
2007-02-27 17:19:07 · answer #3 · answered by JET99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be wise for you to accept that this person has some real issues - #1 is Anger, #2 is Denial, #3 is Dysfunction. There's more, believe me! I would give this one to the dogs and look elsewhere. She has too many "issues", and obviously can't deal with them, let alone deal with anyone else's!!! NOT good relationship material in any way, shape, or form!!
2007-02-27 16:50:01 · answer #4 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. She meant that. She really has met someone else.
Plus she said "I need you as a friend." That is the tell-tale sign that there's no hope for you to be in a relationship with her.
You now have to decide whether or not you want to be friends with her.
2007-02-27 16:48:17 · answer #5 · answered by brotherb95 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she pretty much told you the she in not interested in you as BF and GF relationship. She only wants you as a friend...well, at least for now. If you are really in to her, give it sometime. Sometime is just to wait. good luck!
2007-02-27 16:49:49 · answer #6 · answered by fashionister 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would run away very quickly.
She is this moody when you are just friends imagine what she will be like with you in a relationship
2007-02-27 16:53:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like someone else = /
Either way, she doesnt need to treat you badly.
Good luck, hope it gets better or hope you find someone who treats you great!
2007-02-27 16:46:56 · answer #8 · answered by independent101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she met someone else...or maybe she's just full of drama
2007-02-27 16:52:53 · answer #9 · answered by Virginia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is shallow and not worth your time. Get someone better then her.
2007-02-27 16:50:57 · answer #10 · answered by csplittail 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋